After divorce, I married the richest man - Chatper 840
Gu Bei’an smiled, why didn’t he understand what Su’s mother seemed to be answering him, and didn’t answer him?
This group of ordinary people can’t get rid of the shackles put on by the worldly people. I have been chained by these bullshit chains all my life, and I demand that everyone be chained.
“She is the head of the Gu family, so she will be bound by this identity all her life. Who is she? She is not Su Nianen, she is just the head of the Gu family, the president of Lingfeng. Have you ever asked her what she wants?”
Mother Su smiled, “I understand what you said. So, I don’t force her. My opinion is not important. When she was young, I couldn’t control her. Now she is so big and has such a big What I can do is to help her take good care of her family, so that she will not have to worry about the future, so that she at least does not have to worry about her family.”
“And her lord, she does it herself.”
“Whether it’s waiting for Xichuan, or choosing a new lover and a new life. As long as she chooses, I will support her.”
Mother Su’s influence on her daughter was only when she was a child.
What specialty does the child want to learn, whether to enroll in cram school or not.
Ever since she went to college and got together with that Lin Wenfeng, her daughter began to escape from her control.
If she can be the master of her daughter, it is impossible for her daughter to have a miserable first marriage.
After all, a person’s fate is destined by God.
Now mother Su has figured it out even more. When her daughter was still young, she couldn’t make the decision. Could it be that now that she is a mother of three children and has her own independent personality consciousness, she still expects to use her mother’s identity to influence her daughter?
Gu Bei’an didn’t reply, he was standing at first, but now he is sitting on the chair outside the door.
Mother Su was silent for a long time, and then said:
“Beian, whatever choice Nian En makes, all I can do for her is to help her take good care of her family.”
Gu Bei’an asked in a low voice:
“Auntie is still not satisfied with me?”
Mother Su thought for a while, “In the past few years, I have seen everything you have done to Nian’en and your family. If it were not for the status restriction, I think you might have come together long ago.”
Although there is no destiny, but after going round and round, it is the two of them in the end.
This is also fate, fate without destiny.
Su’s mother said: “Beian, Xichuan is gone, you are the eldest son of the Gu family. Logically speaking, the responsibility of the Gu family should not fall on Nian En. But she resisted on her shoulders, and you didn’t take over the responsibility. She just kept carrying it.”
Su’s mother is clear in her heart, which is why she has clearly known Gu Bei’an’s thoughts in the past few years, but she has pretended to be confused.
To put it more bluntly, it’s something you fought for Nian En, and you gave her all the rights and status.
But if you really love her, cherish her, and take care of your family, you shouldn’t put it on a woman.
Nian En is a widow who lost her husband, and no one in the Gu family recognizes her.
It was Gu Bei’an and his parents who supported her and pushed her up.
Since she was given this powerful identity, the outside world has already known Nian En through this identity.
Now, whether you love deeply or feel distressed, it is best to restrain yourself.
The distress of others is not as good as the choices you make yourself.
Mother Su’s words were not very polite.
Gu Bei’an did not directly respond to these words, but sat silently.
Mother Su thought about what happened today, and said in a low voice:
“So, Bei’an, Auntie is talking about her daughter, but she is also telling the truth. I hope Nian’en is happy and doesn’t have a psychological burden. If you really like her, then take care of other things. At least, don’t let her Because of your choice, it is even more painful.”
If a relationship is so painful, why not think clearly when you have a choice?
Gu Bei’an completely denied Su’s mother’s words from the bottom of his heart.
But at present, Su’s mother’s words also awakened him.
He has always been very irresponsible.
He is freewheeling and fearless, and he is not afraid of any gossip.
However, Su Nianen is different from him after all.
If he really wanted to confess his love to her and ask her to respond, he would have to bear all the consequences. All in all, a better solution is needed.
Her reputation, her sense of responsibility.
Gu Bei’an was silent for a long time, then nodded slowly.
“Auntie, I understand.”
Mother Su took a deep breath. She felt that her life was going well now and she didn’t want to change anything.
If the storm is coming, the adults don’t care, but what about the children?
Have a good time, can’t you?
Mother Su also sat down beside her, and after a long time, she confessed her heart.
“In a family without a man, it is really inconvenient. Women are weaker than men no matter what. Auntie is not afraid of anything, but she is afraid of her child getting sick, and she is afraid that her own illness will hurt her daughter. What is more afraid of is that there is something wrong with Nian En’s body. I’m afraid I can’t take care of her well, I’m afraid I can’t do anything, I can’t help anything before something important happens.”
But these, if Gu Xichuan was around, he wouldn’t be afraid of anything.
As soon as Gu Xichuan left, the backing of the women in the family was gone, and the family’s Dinghaishenzhen was gone, so she was afraid of everything she did.
“Nian’en is my own daughter. If I can choose, I hope her life will be ordinary, healthy and smooth, without such ups and downs.”
A woman has experienced several ups and downs in her life, and the light in her eyes is gone.
Gu Bei’an said in a low voice:
“I see, Auntie, I will make arrangements.”
Mother Sum asked in a low voice:
“At the beginning, you tried your best to support Nian En as the head of the family, and you assisted behind the scenes. In the past few years, your relationship has been very good. In fact, this is also a kind of relationship balance. But if you want to be justified by her side, Then she has to change her current identity, don’t you think?”
Gu Bei’an smiled.
“I don’t think we have found a balanced relationship, a relationship that is good for everyone and the status quo.”
If it wasn’t for Eric who suddenly appeared, he would be satisfied with the status quo.
Can!
“Auntie, do you know that on the day the old lady held an early birthday party for Qingsu, Nian En didn’t accompany Xuanxuan to class, but met guests at home?”
Su’s mother was taken aback for a moment, yes, she found out about this later.
There was a bunch of vegetables left, and not long after Su Nianen returned home that day, the group of them returned to the garden.
The children had to take a nap in the afternoon, and they didn’t come back. They were always in the compound. There were so many people, which made them too excited. They couldn’t rest, so they had to come back.
The things in the kitchen are clearly there, and you can know them as soon as you ask.
Gu Bei’an smiled wryly, “I always thought that in her life, with her eldest brother, she would not be able to accommodate others. So, in the past few years, whatever relationship she thinks is comfortable, I am what relationship exists. Never, never give up.”
Mother Su was confused.
Oh, so, she and her family have misunderstood?
At least, her daughter still doesn’t mean that to Gu Bei’an?
Gu Bei’an smiled desolately, “Auntie, a foreigner who has only met her a few times, and a foreign man who clearly has ulterior motives, has fascinated her so much.”
Mother Su didn’t believe it, what kind of foreign man? The more you say it, the more outrageous it is.
“Nian En is not that kind of person, and she is not a little girl who will be dazzled by love, I don’t believe it.”