Born as a Koi Life in the 70s - Chapter 81
Mi Yuehua said: “Sister Lou Yun, I am not afraid of you saying that I am here to be a matchmaker this time.”
Lou Yun calmed down immediately.
She didn’t expect her sister-in-law to come here to be a matchmaker. After she calmed down, she had nothing to hide from her sister-in-law.
She said: “Sister-in-law, I don’t have this thought now.”
Mi Yuehua thought that Lou Yun would refuse, but she didn’t expect that she would refuse so simply and directly, thinking that no matter what, she would hesitate a little.
Mi Yuehua said: “Lou Yun, you are not too young anymore. You should have a family. You can’t be single like this for a lifetime, right? We women, aren’t we just looking for a man who knows our hearts and minds?”
Lou Yun was silent.
It’s not that she didn’t think about getting married. When she was young, she thought about finding a man to marry, but at that time her sister had an accident. She couldn’t leave her nephew alone, right?
After taking over the nephew, she also thought about marrying someone well, but they didn’t want her.
She said she took a child with her, she said it was her nephew, who knows if it is her son.
Moreover, even if it is a nephew, others are unwilling, and always feel that it is not good to raise another person.
At that time, many people introduced her to her, and she also had a blind date with many people, but in the end they all disappeared.
After all, no one would be willing to raise children for others.
She still had a fiery heart at the beginning, but in the end this fiery heart disappeared.
She also knows she shouldn’t, but what can she do?
In the end, she gave up the idea of getting married, and just wanted to raise her nephew well. As for the old-age care, she also has a nephew.
The nephew was raised by her since she was a child, and she would never leave her alone.
Even if the nephew really doesn’t care about her, and she still has a retirement job herself, she won’t really be unable to live, she can still live.
When the time comes, I will live in a nursing home, and that day will not be too bad.
As for the subject matter, she really looked down on her, and she didn’t have the energy to toss.
Seeing that she was silent, Mi Yuehua said, “Lou Yun, my sister-in-law knows that you are now thinking about getting married, but my sister-in-law is also a woman, and she knows the suffering of women. You feel nothing right now, but you still have a family. When you go home, it’s good to have someone who knows the heat and the cold? If you have another child of your own, then you have a hope in the future, don’t you?”
Lou Yun was silent for a long time before she said, “Sister-in-law, I’m not afraid of your jokes. I did have the idea of getting married before. I also actively sought out and arranged blind dates, but in the end I was very disappointed. Those people didn’t dislike me. The burden of taking a child with me is because I think I am too old. Then I didn’t look for it at all. Anyway, it would be nice to live by myself.”
Mi Yuehua said: “You are heartbroken by a man. If there is a very good man who does not dislike you for raising a child, he is willing to marry you, and this man is willing to help you raise a child together. Would you consider it?”
Lou Yun smiled bitterly: “Sister-in-law, it is impossible to have such a man. If I had no children, naturally many people would accept me, but they would not accept Weidong. I cannot give up Weidong, so …”
Mi Yuehua said: “What do you think of Zhai Jianguo?”
Lou Yun was stunned. “Commander Zhai?”
Frowning, how does this have anything to do with him?
She was of course familiar with Commander Zhai. They were partners, and no one knew Commander Zhai better than her.
Since the divorce, Chief Zhai has cleaned himself up and has never thought of remarrying.
She once tempted him and asked him why he didn’t want to get married?
He answered her in this way: “I don’t want to disappoint Ahong. Ahong has lost his mother since he was a child. I don’t want him to feel that he has lost his father’s love anymore.”
She was speechless at the time. But at the same time, she can understand his feelings, because she thinks that way.
After raising Wei Dong, she was afraid that he would be wronged and that others would not accept him. In the end, she asked her to send her away.
She never thought about giving up Weidong, and naturally she could understand Zhai Jianguo’s fear of breaking her son’s heart at the time.
She didn’t ask any more later.
Seeing the movement on her face, Mi Yuehua knew there was hope.
It seems that Lou Yun doesn’t have no feeling for Zhai Jianguo. Judging from the expression just now, she admires Zhai Jianguo.
It’s right to think about it. After all, they have been partners together for so many years, how can they not have any feelings?
Even if it is a comradeship, not a real relationship between men and women, it is better than finding a stranger who doesn’t know anything.
Mi Yuehua said: “I came to be a matchmaker today, and I was the matchmaker between you and Jianguo. You know, after Jianguo divorced, he never remarried. After so many years, he has always been alone. His personal problems, It has always been my family’s Xia Sheng’s mind, and the feelings of you, you, the primary officials at the grassroots level are what they are most concerned about.”
Lou Yun opened her mouth, trying to say something, but in the end she closed her mouth again and said nothing.
Mi Yuehua said: “I know you have a lot to ask now. Does Jianguo know about this matter, will he agree to it, right?”
Lou Yun opened her mouth, and finally nodded.
Mi Yuehua said: “This matter, we naturally explored Jianguo’s tone, and he did not refuse. He answered my Xia Sheng that way, saying that as long as you agree, he has no objection.”
Lou Yun widened her eyes, “Sister-in-law, you mean Captain Zhai… agreed?”
How can it be?
How could Commander Zhai agree? He loves his son so much, will he hurt his son for a woman?
Mi Yuehua said, “Of course he agreed, so I dared to come over and tell you. Otherwise, this matter can’t be done?”
Lou Yun still couldn’t believe how much she knew Zhai Jianguo, how could she not know Zhai Jianguo’s thoughts? He had no plans to remarry at all, and for the sake of his son, he never thought of getting married.
How could you suddenly agree? It must be the commander who gave the order, and Battalion Commander Zhai was under pressure and couldn’t compromise.
Thinking of this, Lou Yun’s mouth felt even more bitter.
Lou Yun said, “Sister-in-law, I know.”
Neither did they agree, nor did they disagree.
She also knew that if Zhai Jianguo had to agree to an order from her teacher, what about her?
Will you resist?
But she was reluctant.
After all, this is a marriage event, not a trifling matter.
What she wants is not an order, but a sincere feeling, a husband who is sincere to her.
Lou Yun took a deep breath, “Sister-in-law, can you let me think about it?”
Mi Yuehua said: “Of course, we do not engage in forced marriages. This is what you want to do. My sister-in-law came over today and wanted to ask you, what do you think about Jianguo? Do you like him? ?”
Lou Yun’s eyes widened, “I… don’t know.”
Her heart is disturbed.
She didn’t know what she was feeling right now.