Full Of My Love To You - Chapter 32: Fanwai Ii: He And Her And Them

1. She and him and him

“Let’s get married! Not much else to say, as long as I live, it will be good to you.”

When Xu Weiyu said this to me, I was watering the dying aloe on the balcony of my hometown. After listening, I asked, “Are you proposing marriage?”

Xu Weiyu took out the ring and said earnestly and affectionately: “Yes, I will not kneel when I kneel. We have been in love for more than ten years. Anyway, I have kneeled on your knees for hundreds of times. Good Well, then this matter is settled. ”

At this time the younger brother ran over and said, “What is it, you kneel to me!”

then……

Wei Yu: “Adults talk to children, don’t interrupt.”

Brother: “Aren’t you proposing to my sister? You will kneel down for me!”

Wei Yu: “Should I kneel off your hair?”

Brother: “Anyway, you, want, give, me, kneel, down! If you ask for marriage, you must kneel down for me! You kneel down for me!”

I:”……”

Every time I think back to the scene of Xu Weiyu’s proposal, I feel like an outsider.

2. Honeymoon that is not a honeymoon

Bali is a place I always wanted to go to-because I watched a Korean drama “Love of Bali” when I was young.

Out of “thrift”, I bought a plane ticket for connecting flights in Hong Kong. As a result, in Hong Kong, Xu Weiyu went all the way to update his electronic product-air ticket money wasted.

Departing from Hong Kong, another five-hour flight finally arrived in Bali.

On the taxi to the hotel, I said to Xu Weiyu: “In Indonesia, some men with religious beliefs are allowed to have polygamy, and they can marry up to four. The country will not control it.”

When I saw him listening very seriously, I asked: “Is it annoying to have the wrong country? Believe in the wrong teaching?”

Xu Weiyu immediately retorted: “How is it possible!”

I thought he was going to show his loyalty, and he heard him say, “How could I give up all kinds of food for a few women ?!”

After a while, Xu Weiyu said, “In other words, when I took a nearly ten-hour flight to Frankfurt, I was very unhappy at that time. People said that long-distance love will still bear fruit as long as you persist, but you will still be back then. Without falling in love with us, we are far away, how terrible you say. ”

“I’m feeling fine.”

Xu Weiyu said in English: “The driver stopped, I don’t know her.”

I do n’t know if the driver did n’t understand it. I still think the two of us are too second. In short, he did n’t take care of us … Fortunately, it ’s not too shameful.

The biggest advantage of going abroad with Xu Weiyu is that he does not have to worry about communication issues, which is what he often shows in front of me.

Unfortunately, there are many Chinese-speaking people in Bali, including many local businessmen.

Xu Weiyu buys water: “Hi …”

Indonesian businessman: “what to buy?”

“You can speak Chinese?”

“Sometimes. What to buy?”

Xu Weiyu took the water back in dismay, “The boss’s Chinese is quite good.”

3. See each other and kill each other

When the younger brother came home in the summer vacation, it was Xu Weiyu who picked him up at the airport.

I was on a business trip in the field at that time, and then listened to Wei Yu retelling the conversation between them, especially speechless—

Gu Xiaodi looked at Xu Weiyu as soon as he got on the bus, and Zhangkou said, “I want seafood, crab!”

Xu Weiyu: “A little brain, okay? It’s not yet the season for crabs.”

Younger brother: “I, anyway, right, want, eat!”

Xu Weiyu: “Okay, buy it for you, and then come with a bag of persimmons, satisfied.”

Younger brother: “Eating persimmon with crabs will kill you. You are really my fool.”

“Sometimes you are quite smart.” Xu Weiyu touched the younger brother’s head, “Goodboy! Goodboy! (Greeting puppy tone)”

Brother: “…”

One day after I came back from my business trip, I said to Xu Weiyu: “Brother comes over at night and he will stay with us for a few days.”

His face changed immediately.

Me: “Are you afraid?”

“It’s not afraid, it’s annoying! You don’t know that he’s yelling and it’s endless, because he’s a man in his early twenties, like a child!”

My heart says, you are not like children.

The night the younger brother came, we decided to go out for dinner.

Conventionally, the two children started arguing before going out, because no one wanted to be a driver and cheapened each other.

Me: “Did I drive?”

The younger brother pointed to Xu Weiyu and said, “Why didn’t you drive it? Why did you always let my sister drive? Are you not a man?”

Xu Weiyuqian gave up: “You are a man, you drive.”

Me: “Forget it, don’t leave it, now take the subway during peak hours.”

On the subway, I sat in the middle, and the two children looked down and played on their phones without talking.

I asked, “Where are you going to eat a lot? What cuisine do you want to eat?”

Xu Weiyu and his brother both quickly raised their heads to comment, and I quickly stopped: “I shouldn’t ask, I’m going to find a Hangzhou Hangcai to eat.”

Wei Yu smiled and said: “Those Hangbang restaurants must have queued up to kill people.”

Brother: “Then you go in line! I will go shopping with my sister.”

Wei Yu scoffed and said, “Don’t be your daydream! Come and live with me. It’s good to confiscate your room rate, but also want to take advantage of me.”

This last sentence sounds ambiguous …

Because it was in the subway, the younger brother could only suppress his voice and said angrily: “The house is the down payment paid by my sister.”

However, Xu Weiyu was paying back the mortgage in the later period.

Xu Weiyu smiled and said, “Yes, the house belongs to your sister. But your sister is the down payment that I paid more than ten years ago, and everything that has been paid off now. The belongings of everything are still me. Is it good? Chinese literature is good to fight me again, demo. ”

Brother: “…”

After getting off the subway, I went to a restaurant. Sure enough, there was a crowd, and I needed to wait for the number.

Brother: “When do we wait for so many people to eat? Sister, shall we change the house?”

Wei Yu was also reluctant to wait, so no comments.

Finally, I changed to a Cantonese restaurant.

When I was eating, my younger brother said, “Sister, a friend asked me to play in a nearby city in two days.”

Upon hearing this, Xu Weiyu took out his wallet and drew out a coin, earnestly said: “Are you going to come with a one-way ticket that says you can go and go back and forth? Fund your Wu Mao to get it.”

The little brother was finally furious: “Can you not talk to me?”

I don’t know if I can see them talking in their lifetime.

When cleaning one day, I found a bug like a longicorn on the bookcase. I could not help but screamed: “There are worms (the Jiaxing dialect of worms is pronounced shong)!”

The younger brother ran over to hear the sound: “What? There is a snake ?!” When he saw what it was, he said with a little disappointment: “What, is a bug.”

Xu Weiyu, who came together, said, “Do you learn Chinese with your sign (dog)?”

The little brother didn’t understand it all at once, and his expression was a bit dazed. After about five seconds, he realized: “You learn from you all over the body!”

Xu Weiyu: “I am a tiger, and the tiger is the king of animals-don’t tell me a lion, it doesn’t even have the qualification to participate in the zodiac. As your king, go, open the refrigerator and hold a bottle of Coke to me.

Just now the two were watching TV together, how to say “turn your face” …

I heard them quarreling two mouths without nutrition, and said, “Give each other one way, the sea and the sky, OK?”

Xu Weiyu: “He asked me to die, so which step is it, it is completely off the cliff, okay!”

4. Reasons for being single

Lan Lan asked us to eat, and the head of the bedroom, A Min, said: “There is no time, we have to blind date on the weekend. We have to see four on this Sunday. All three meals can not be arranged. Alas, the business is too busy. It ’s midnight! Let ’s talk at the party when I have an object. ”

Lan Lan agreed with the master: “When she has an object, goodbye? Then it seems that we will not see her in this life.”

That Sunday, Amin called me: “I can’t eat the night after dinner, but the man finally pushed it away.”

I persuaded: “It’s almost enough, don’t ask too much.”

A Min: “I’m not tall, people are too tall!”

I:”……”

Daren later comforted Amin in the group: “Actually, you are okay, that is, you are black, fat, short, temperament is a little poor, and your aunt is a little bit better. It ’s a little bit, I do n’t know how to repent, and I ’m lazy to do something. It ’s really difficult for people like you to find a target. I ’m really hard to understand. What is going on in this society? ”

A Min: “That means!”

Looking at this friendship, I was deeply moved.

A Min said again: “My dad said that he would buy me a second house. He said he would marry me and use a house as a dowry. It seems a little difficult. It’s really a daddy! I love you old Dad, why! ”

Everyone: “…”

Lan Lan later concluded: The reason for being single is either not finding the right one or forgetting someone.

5. Destroy small freshness in one second

Friends came to play at home, drinking tea elegantly, and talking to me about ideals: “When I am rich and my mind is like water, I will face the sea with my lover, dog, and spring flowers.”

Xu Weiyu: “Do your lover and dog agree?”

Friends: “You go away.”

Another friend came to ask me where it was fun to go abroad. I also asked if I have been to Greece, Italy, or Spain.

My friend longed: “I really want to see those picturesque places.”

Xu Weiyu, who ruined his dream for a second, came to interject again: “Those places, I have also been longing for it. Only after I went there did I realize that the fairy tales were deceptive, all kinds of messes, I was stolen in the French subway When you go to the police, the police don’t care at all. In Italy and Spain, thieves are also rampant. ”

A friend cried: “Uncle Xu, please don’t talk to me, don’t destroy my beautiful fantasy, OK?”

Those of my friends love and hate Xu Weiyu’s destruction of Xiaoqing’s attributes in a second-hate him for not giving people room for YY, but sometimes they have to admit that most of what he said is correct.

6. Israeli Wife

Xu Weiyu and I have a small house and are struggling to repay the loan.

At noon that day, Xu Weiyu came back for lunch, and said as soon as he entered the door: “The speed of the years is faster than the speed of the old heart. It is helpless, otherwise it is pitiful.”

I once posted this sentence on Weibo.

“Did you take the wrong medicine?”

Wei Yu sang, “I just looked at myself in the mirror when I got up on the elevator, thinking that my kind of confusing and good-minded person is really a natural beauty and hard to give up.”

I couldn’t help laughing, “Natural beauty is hard to give up, and was once chosen on the side of the king.”

Xu Weiyu froze for a while, and said softly, “The little maid really speaks. What you want, say, this lady is rewarding you.”

In the evening, Xu Weiyu spoke to people in the study room, and the other party said, “Xingge (because his screen name is Xiaoxiaofu), when will you play the game? Please come and help me to abuse.”

“Wait a moment, brother is peeling pomegranate to eat.”

“I said, can you eat some other fruit? Pomegranate is so time-consuming!”

“Okay, noisy, just wash your hands and come.”

Xu Weiyu washed his hands and came out of the bathroom, watching me sorting things, and suddenly asked me: “What do you think of me playing games?”

I said: “The pressure is so great in reality that you can’t deprive you of recreational activities that relax you. Of course, if you are addicted, decisively ban it.”

“How can I be the kind of person who will indulge?” Then he came and pinched my arm.

“Xingge, are you all right?” A loud voice came from the study.

“Come!” He dropped my hand and ran quickly.

Xu Weiyu: “We have a quick decision, the old wife is still waiting for my love, and I have no time to accompany your group of single dogs for a protracted battle.”

Most of the games he played with were his old classmates, and some of them were mixed together after introductions.

So once I heard someone ask him: “Yes, sir, what kind of work are you doing?”

Xu Weiyu: “It is mainly engaged in wives of Israel.”

I:”……”

other side:”……”

7. Thinking different from ordinary people

When he was in elementary school, Xu Weiyu studied the violin for a while. After junior high school, he basically didn’t touch it. Occasionally, it was when someone in the class needed to perform a talent show.

Xu Weiyu’s violin is not very good, at best it can only be heard.

After working, Xu Weiyu’s unit once engaged in activities, and he took his violin into battle again.

When he returned home that night, he said to me pitifully: “I was lost money! Old Yang’s fellow, rewarded me a dollar, too much! For my appearance, I have to throw five dollars less what!”

After entering the winter, Xu Weiyu’s mood became very low: “It’s sad to be charged 20 yuan for being late. It’s so cold now that I can’t get up, I thought …

Me: “What do you think? Do you decide to go to bed early and get up early?”

Xu Weiyu: “No. I’m thinking … Do you want to pay off the late six hundred yuan for one month?”

I:”……”

On the weekend, when the bank was doing business and waiting for a call, a little boy, about four or five years old, kept dangling in front of me, and I took out a small packet of biscuits from his bag and handed it to him. When the two of us were “trading”, the child’s mother came over and educated the child: “The next time strangers cannot give things to them, just in case the child is trafficked!”

I was a little embarrassed.

Xu Weiyu next to him listened and smiled: “It’s reasonable!” Then he turned to me and said, “Don’t give random food to strangers in the future, just look at you and please take you away.”

There is no irony in his words, purely amusing.

The child mother next to me laughed and said thank you to us and took the child away.

I looked at Xu Weiyu, and he proudly said, “Something, let’s talk.”

I touched his head and said, “If there is a husband, what can he ask for?”

Xu Weiyu froze for a second: “I heard this, but what does it mean?”

I:”……”

8. Unbelief

In early 2015, I went to Japan and drew a sign at Sensoji Temple-Xiaoji.

After returning to China, Xu Weiyu was furious when he saw the sign, which included career, physical condition, and marriage and family. What is said about marriage and family: the people you waited for have not yet appeared.

“What? Haven’t appeared yet? Is Lao Tzu a ghost? Not as reliable as our domestic temple. Bad review!”

In fact, when I asked for a visa, I thought to myself, when will the child come?

Later, when I went to Suzhou with Xu Weiyu, in a garden, I saw a stone turtle, and a tour guide on the side was explaining. I got money from the head and got something from the tail. Anyway, I got all four directions. Xu Weiyu touched all four directions when the tour guide said. The tour guide looked at him meaningfully and said, “Young people, all four locations are touched, so all four are empty.”

Xu Weiyu froze for a moment, then calmed down: “I don’t believe in evil!” Then he reached out again without touching his face and touched the head of Xiashi Turtle–Zhaocai.

9. Identify a person for a lifetime

When walking with Xu Weiyu after dinner, a man approaching looked like a Korean star. I couldn’t help but look at it twice. When I saw the ring on the ring finger of my left hand, I couldn’t help but sigh. Xu Weiyu next to him immediately said, “Look, sigh, sigh, you also wear a ring on your ring finger!”

At that time, I felt that the good guys were married, and I was worried about my group of female friends who are making blind dates every week.

Xu Weiyu added: “Don’t you think that handsome is superficial? How can a warrior who is exposed to the wind and rain to protect his country and protect the country be handsome!”

Me: “Aren’t you just a technician?”

Xu Weiyu was not happy anymore, and sonorously said: “My spirit is fighting blood every day!”

However, it didn’t take long for Xu Weiyu to enter the hospital in the middle of the night due to stomach bleeding.

I later asked him: “Although you are smiling all day long, in fact, you are under a lot of work pressure?”

Xu Weiyu said with a smile: “Yeah, in the office every day … Acacia becomes ailment. You say that the pressure is not big?” After the hippie smiled, he said, “Relax, as long as you are by my side, any problems, any trouble Can’t beat me. ”

Sometimes, he would lie beside me and start learning about my insomnia, so the two of us often started chatting in the middle of the night.

Me: “I can’t express it in the most appropriate words in my head. This kind of feeling is really bad.”

Wei Yu: “You wrote it, others read it, you can understand it, you feel it, that’s enough. Don’t be too harsh on yourself-this is also a disease, commonly known as self-torture. Brother tells you, people live In the world, you can’t treat people who are good to yourself, let alone treat yourself … ”

I interrupted him: “Then they want you to change jobs, why don’t you change them? They are afraid that you will get stomach cancer ten years later.” I also thought about changing him to another job, but I didn’t want to interfere with him too much.

Xu Weiyu: “They are too exaggerated.”

Me: “Ma Yundu said that in ten years, the three major cancers will trouble every family in China.”

He told me affectionately: “Relax, I will try to live longer than you.”

I:”……”

Wei Yu: “Because I’m afraid I will die in front of you, you can’t live well, sleep well, eat badly, think of these, I can’t stand it. So I have to live longer than you anyway, you go, I will Follow your heels. ”

“Martyrdom for me?” I only lied when he was bullshit, so he accompanied him.

He laughed aloud, and stopped talking.

I said to myself, wouldn’t he be serious?

Then I couldn’t help but imagine how he would feel if he left first …

As a result, imagination alone is unbearable-if one day, I am the only one left in the house where I lived with him for many years, I know that the most difficult thing is not loneliness, but hopelessness that I miss but can not see.

I saw an old lady who lost her love on the Internet and said: I started to fall in love long distances twenty years ago.

I said, “Weiyu, let’s try not to fall in love any longer, shall we? When we are young, one time is enough.”

I didn’t respond after waiting for a long time. Looking back, he had already slept.

…

I have met him for a few hours, and I understand how to become a green horse. One loves to play, one loves to watch, and grows up when watching; one loves to say, one loves to listen, and listening to it will understand.

It is so long in life, but so short.