I Advise You To Like Me As Soon As Possible - Chapter 48
But no matter what, the beauty plan does work, Yao h really lost his eyes, and finally nodded: “Yu Feiyuan’s learning attitude has always been very good, and teacher Gu said he is very serious, but although he is the same as Sister Shuning. Of the doctoral students, Mr. Gu clearly favored Sister Shuning, who had published several articles in several core journals while she was at school.”
“That is, Professor Gu’s evaluation of Yu Feiyuan is not bad?”
“It was okay at first, and then…” Yao h bit his lip. “We used to give Mr. Gu a birthday celebration. He drank too much, and after drinking, he scolded Yu Feiyuan. I learned that Mr. Gu was annoying. he.”
“Why do you hate it? Because Shu Ning? So hate the house and Ukraine?”
Yao H looked at Fu Zheng and shook his head: “Mr. Gu said, this man Yu Feiyuan looked honest, but he didn’t expect to be so ambitious. He got us drunk after drunk.”
“Before, we always envy Senior Sister Shuning and Senior Feiyuan Yu, because when they graduated, both of them have already published almost the same number of articles in the core journals. Most of the articles are Senior Sister Shuning and second student Yu Feiyuan; But then there are several articles by Yu Feiyuan, a senior, and a sister, a second. In short, in our opinion at that time, they were a strong union between the academics and masters, but Teacher Gu told us that this is not the case…”
“Teacher Gu said that the academic ability of the seniors is not good at all. The second works are all because he was in love with Shuning student at that time. Sister Shuning likes what he likes, and feels that he should bring his boyfriend to hang up with him. ; In addition to the works of the seniors, the actual contributor is also the sister of Shu Ning, who gave her the opportunity to hang the first author on her behalf…
This really resembles Shu Ning’s style, sacrificing for love, willing to pave the way for the other party, and has no such great reputation for power. Therefore, even the signature right of a work is willing to hand over to Feiyuan Yu.
“Mr. Gu used to praise Shuning’s sister Sister, now he treats her as a negative case. Every time he drinks, he can’t help nagging and caring for our female students, telling us not to lose because of love. Brain, I will always rank first, love myself first and then love others, career first, I read the doctorate not to go home to teach my husband…”
Even if it is Yao H’s retelling at the moment, Ning Wan can imagine Professor Gu’s inner regret when he said this. For the old professor of Ai Cai, it is also fate to meet a talented student like Shu Ning, but this student not only did not Choosing to do academics, not choosing to do business, instead married and gave birth to keep them in family life, and even cut off the teacher and the past connections, as if to concentrate on being a gold. Canary…
Fu Zheng asked Yao h about several details, which ended the investigation and thanked her.
Yao h blushed a little: “Layer Fu, can you add a WeChat?” she said nervously. “In case I think of any clues later, I can tell you.”
Fu Zheng naturally smiled and took out his mobile phone and added contact information to Yao h.
This is normal for handling cases, but Ning Wan wants to roll her eyes for no reason. After Fu Zheng walked away from the school, Ning Wan finally couldn’t hold back—
“Women can’t love the brain, men too.” Ning Wan glanced at Fu Zheng, then pretended to turn his eyes indifferently, “the first case, the second love.”
Going on by himself, Fu Zheng was stunned at first, and then he looked at himself and laughed: “Got it.”
Ning Wan coughed uncomfortably: “Just… I will barely count you as a teacher. In order to prevent you from repeating Shu Ning’s mistakes, if you want to fall in love with each other, you can still give me the first Look, how can I say it is much more toxic than your eyes…”
“I’m not in love.” Fu Zheng looked at Ning Wan, and then looked away. “I’m all thirty, and I’m just a trainee lawyer. I have no career and I don’t deserve to fall in love.”
As a result, Ning Wan did not know what happened to her. Seeing that Fu Zhengjia showed signs of falling in love with others, he was unhappy. When he heard Fu Zheng said that he was intoxicated and unintentionally in love, he was unhappy…
She shook her mind and decided to focus on Shu Ning’s case first–
“Now I understand it in many ways, what do you think of this case?”
Fu Zheng pursed his lips: “It’s not very easy to fight. It may be a protracted battle. Yu Feiyuan is unlikely to agree to a divorce, but he is very smart and there is little evidence to prove that his relationship has broken, including Shu Ning’s injury, because there is no I am afraid that it is difficult to use evidence to report to the police in time. In addition, I have reviewed the jurisprudence. In legal practice, even if there is real domestic violence, as long as the man expresses his confession, many courts do not judge divorce for the first time.
When the case progresses here, it is still necessary to seek other breakthroughs.
“But Shu Ning and Yu Feiyuan’s marriage, no matter how difficult, they have to leave.” Ning Wan thought of Shu Ning, he was very heavy, “You also see it? Yu Fei Yuan in addition to physical violence against Shu Ning, even the spirit I haven’t missed it yet. I fell in love with her. After I fell in love, let her use her resources to take advantage of her. On the one hand, she sucked her blood, on the one hand, she also suppressed her jealousy, she guarded her, and brainwashed her all day. The thoughts of the male and female host, including the severance of contact with the relatives and friends after marriage, let her passively narrow the social circle. I suspect that Yu Feiyuan brainwashed her to let her do it. Even Shu Ning was originally going to work. I wasn’t going to have a baby, but I got pregnant somehow, but now I think about it, don’t you think it’s suspicious?”
Fu Zheng nodded: “Even before she wanted to return to the workplace to submit a resume, Yu Feiyuan was extremely hard hit. After going to the Deep Blue Machinery, Yu Feiyuan also took the opportunity to magnify Shu Ning’s mistakes and dilute her ability.”
Ning Wan didn’t have much hope for collecting evidence at the school this time. She really doubted that it was a waste of time and did not promote the case. However, after talking with Yao H, she was fortunate to be here.
I originally thought that Yu Feiyuan and Shu Ning were just general family and marital disputes. However, the more she tapped Yu Feiyuan, the more terrible she felt. He was not as simple as a domestic scumbag man. This is a PUA master!
He cut off Shu Ning’s road almost step by step for the camp, cut off the relatives and friends of the past, did not want her to participate in the workplace, and suppressed her self-cognition in various ways, so that Shu Ning was abused by the family for many years, and there was no one to talk to. In his beating and kneeling sweet words, he chose to continue to live in this situation, and even accepted his brainwashing over time, completely losing his independence, thinking that women are the service to serve men Is.
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Almost as soon as he rushed back to the community office from school, Ning Wan called and asked Shu Ning again. She still had some details to confirm-
“Did you delete the contact information of the former classmates and teachers after you got married? Why?” Ning Wan was not guilty. She asked directly, “Is Yu Feiyuan letting you do this?”
Shu Ning was stunned for a while: “Does this have anything to do with divorce?”
“Are you inconvenient to say?”
Shu Ning smiled bitterly: “It’s nothing, you went to school in the end? Didn’t Mr. Gu mention me and didn’t want to see you at all.”
Ning Wan and Fu Zheng glanced at each other without speaking.
Shu Ning sighed for a long time: “It’s true that they are deleted to fly away.” She recalled, “Although I graduated, I was in a group with a few friends of the same level, and everybody still chatted and chatted. We mechanical engineering There are many boys in the group, so the majority of the group are also heterosexual, but to be honest, they and I are really just friends, but Feiyuan doesn’t believe in life and death, and I’m jealous when I talk to anyone.”
“He, I just liked me so much at the time, and I was so strong. I couldn’t see more words with anyone. Even chatting with Mr. Gu, he was unhappy for a few days and said he was insecure and afraid of me. Leave him at any time. I have quarreled with me several times for this matter. In fact, I am willing to let him check my mobile phone at any time. What else can he worry about? One time later, the quarrel was too loud. To commit suicide, I thought about it. Anyway, it’s him who lives together. It’s enough to have a partner with me in life. The rest of my friends are really just passing guests. I’m afraid that he will do stupid things again. Classmates, even Teacher Gu deleted it.”
With such a terrible and morbid possessiveness, Shu Ning now talks about this experience in the past, and there is even a little regret and regret on his face: “At first, you see how good our relationship is, he loves me and can be jealous at any time, for me. Life and death, willing to give me all my life, but now, I don’t even feel hurt for my fist…”
Ning Wan almost wanted to shake her head to wake her up, what else can you live or die, and give you your life, this is not a romance novel, in reality, encountering this terrible paranoid personality, mind There should only be two words–
Run!
It is a pity that Shu Ning did not run. She indulged in the love dream that Yu Feiyuan had woven for her. She really disobeyed her contact with her friend’s teacher. Since she was willing to mediocrely follow Yu Feiyuan, she is now being divorced by domestic violence and even unable to do so. Proof of specific property details at home.
Fortunately, she at least decided to divorce, away from Yu Feiyuan, and always start a new life.
Ning Wan wanted to tell Yu Feiyuan the truth, but Shu Ning interrupted her. She looked at the time haggardly: “I have to pick up my daughter right away, school is coming, two lawyers, there are more What do we call?”
Ning Wan looked at the time and did not force Shu Ning anyway. Anyway, she was divorced. Afterwards, there was enough time in the communication to help her expose Yu Feiyuan’s face.
But what Ning Wan didn’t expect was that he and Fu Zheng were still thinking hard about forensics, but in just two days, Shu Ning had changed his hexagrams—
“Lawyer Ning and Fu, I thought about it and decided not to divorce.” The wound on her face was not completely clear, but she completely overturned her previous decision. “Just… the child is still young, I am divorced. After that, the child becomes a single-parent family. Even if I get the custody of the child, I have to work and bring the child. The child’s living environment is not as good as that of a two-parent family…”
Shu Ning’s tone was a little embarrassing, but the speed of his speech was very fast. It seemed that the person she was trying to persuade was not Ning Wan and Fu Zheng, but herself: “This time when Feiyuan came back from a business trip, he brought me a lot of gifts and specially prepared candlelight. The dinner was condemned and took me to the place we had been in when we were in love. He said it was really painful this time, and he recognized his fault.”
“But he said the same last time! Didn’t he continue the domestic violence in the end?!”
Shu Ning couldn’t understand Ning Wan’s restlessness. She lowered her head: “This time I believe that Feiyuan is serious. I took advantage of him on a business trip and proposed a divorce to separate him. As a result, he immediately went crazy and said that he really couldn’t Without me, the wrist was cut that night… I also sent a video of my wrist cut to me, and he didn’t go to the hospital until I finally agreed not to divorce. I… I heard him crying so sad on the phone, and again Listening to him mentioning our past, and the children, I… I’m still soft… I decided to give him another chance…”
Shu Ning is still talking about something, but the negative emotions in Ning Wan’s heart are almost exploding. She is clearly an independent adult who can decide her life, but at this moment, time seems like a reincarnation, Ning Wan I felt as if I had returned to that young summer-the humid, gloomy summer that could not see the way ahead.
Throughout the summer, her father kept repeating the routes of borrowing money, gambling money, losing money, being debt-collected, drinking, and beating his mother. Every minute and every second, his ears seemed to haunt him. The insulting scolding was accompanied by the sound of things being broken constantly.
The scum of glass, the white gas from the hot soup pouring on the ground, the punching and kicking on his mother, and the smell of blood hidden in the air.
These memory fragments almost accompanied Ning Wan’s entire adolescence, making her feel like a plant that obviously did not like the shade but lived in the dense forest without sunlight all day long. There was no easy and ignorant first love in her youth. There was nothing worthwhile. Some of the aftertastes are only the mother’s silent crying, the father’s violent screams and the scarce money-in order to fill her father’s gambling debts, almost all the family savings were taken away by him over the box, except for the mother’s Ning Wan had to work to save the remaining living expenses and tuition fees.
In the long depression, Ning Wan tried to suppress the anger and unwillingness in her heart. She kept asking the same question in her heart-why didn’t her mother divorce? Why can’t she leave her father decisively? Why do you always forgive again in the man’s false confession after being injured again and again?
“The child is still young, and I still need my parents. I decided to give her a complete family…”
Shu Ning is still talking softly, and at this moment, in Ning Wan’s eyes, her excessively docile to tolerant appearance and the mother in her memory finally overlapped, and even they finally endured this excuse for life It’s exactly the same–
“If I had my daughter, I might also consider divorce, but think about it carefully, I can’t be so selfish, I want to divorce my daughter and become a child of a single parent family, it is difficult to find objects in the future, many men are very Mind single parents, feel that children grow up unhealthy…”
Ning Wan knew that she should restrain her emotions, but at this moment, her anger for many years was finally resolved.
“Children and children, it’s nice to speak for the sake of children. Is it fun to pretend to be a shield? It’s because you are timid and cowardly. You don’t even have the courage to leave a wrong man to start your life again!”
She looked at Shu Ning, her tone was faintly vibrated because of the huge emotions, Fu Zheng was stunned, and she really wanted to stop her, but at this moment, Ning Wan couldn’t care about anything–
“Do you think you are selfless? It’s good to put the cause of domestic violence on the child in the end? Then wait for the child to be older and tell her that her mother is doing it for you? Let the child live to you for life. In guilt?”
Shu Ning apparently did not expect Ning Wan’s sudden trouble, the whole person was stunned.
“What do you think is the happiness of a child living in a domestic violence? What kind of healthy family environment can be said? A loving and safe environment is what children need most. Even if they divorce, it is better than keeping a trash. !”
And obviously he is the victim of Yu Feiyuan, but Shu Ning instead defended the perpetrators at the moment, and even became a little angry: “Feiyuan is not as bad as you said, trouble you not to personally attack, he…”
It is always difficult for people to admit their mistakes frankly, it is difficult to recognize how bad their choice of spouse is, and how bad their taste is. Therefore, even if they are implicitly aware of the problem, they will even brainwash and paralyze to hide the problem. Not to mention Shu Ning, Yu Feiyuan’s long-term PUA suppression and brainwashing.
In such a long time in the community, Ning Wan was not the one who had never seen a character worse than Yu Feiyuan, but there was nothing that made her feel as angry and angry as this family violence.
“Shu Ning, look at your life by yourself? You are much better than Yu Feiyuan, and turned out to be his tool, squeezed. Outside of his wife and mother, your identity is yourself first! But you are now What kind of ego? This is not the first time Yu Feiyuan has hit you. Every time the violence is escalating, but you can still bear it? Do you really have to wait for him to irreversibly hurt you, and really hit you to threaten your life? , Will you wake up?”
“If you don’t save yourself, no one can help her. If you don’t divorce, continue living in this hell! Don’t think how great you are to endure for your children. It’s not your children who are sorry for you, you who are sorry for you! It’s you. Cowardice and stupidity choose not to divorce so that children are shadows of these violence in their childhood!”
Ning Wan’s words were sharp and sharp, and Shu Ning’s face was black with the naked eye: “What kind of person are you? Wouldn’t you be the extreme feminist of your own anti-marriage and anti-breeding? Shouldn’t you be a lawyer and respect the client? I don’t want to divorce Isn’t it good? Feiyuan is my husband, I believe he can change it, do you still want to divorce on my head? Rather than dismantling ten temples without marrying one, you are not psychologically distorted, right? Divorce How hard is the woman you don’t even know, can I be responsible for my divorce and the bad life of my child?”
Shu Ning was originally an indecisive person. Ning Wan didn’t expect that she not only scolded her, but instead cursed her rebellious psychology. If she had originally wasted Ning Wan and Fu Zheng’s time to help herself The investigation and evidence collection still felt guilty, and now even this guilt has been swept away.
“Just like you guys who can come to be community lawyers will not be good lawyers!” Shu Ning hated. “Who are they! I can’t divorce you for anything! Sure enough, Feiyuan said yes, A low-level lawyer like you, wishing that I would divorce, just to earn my lawyer fees! When I saw that I refused to divorce, I showed such a face! What a shame!”
After Shu Ning finished speaking, he no longer took into account Ning Wan’s reaction.
Ning Wan looked at her back, only to feel disappointment and anger flowing in her heart, the same story, the same ending, unconsciously, Ning Wan still projected her mother’s expectations on Shu Ning, but it was a pity, Shu Ning is no different. She almost took the initiative to return to the life controlled by the mind.
This was the darkest day since Ning Wan became a community lawyer. However, when she thought this was a trough in her career, life gave her another blow-she was complained by Shu Ning.