I am not interested in money anymore - Chapter 498
After dinner, the family came to the East Chamber conference room.
The meeting room in the East Wing room was later changed. With more and more Su family, Su’s house is also changing at any time.
In the past, the security and housekeeping nannies of the Su family basically lived in the courtyard, but now the Su family is about to add children, and there are ten children at once.
It’s good to say in a short time that the child is too young and must live with his parents.
But when the children are older, they must move out.
The room will certainly not be enough, so the housekeeping and security have to move out.
Fortunately, Su Chen bought many quadrangles and residential buildings nearby. At the beginning, she bought these yards to make a home for these backward housekeeping and security. Now even if they move out, they don’t worry about having nowhere to live.
The main courtyard now has three rooms in the main room, which should have been seven, but later it was renovated and the middle was opened.
There are three rooms. In the middle is the main living room, which is the size of two rooms. It is mainly used to entertain relatives and friends. If the relationship is not in place, you can’t get in at all.
When the family usually eat, they will also be here.
On the left side of the living room is the bedroom. The Su family lives here. It is three rooms in size. In the whole room, the most striking thing is the innermost big bed. It can sleep 30 people across the East and West gables. It looks very spectacular.
Of course, Su Chen didn’t want to marry so many daughters-in-law, but mainly for the children.
When a child is young, he must sleep with his parents. The bed is too small to sleep at all.
On the right side of the living room is Su Chen’s study, which is also the entrance to the underground treasure room. Some cultural relics and antiques, literary treasures, carved handlebars, calligraphy works and literary works of Su Chen are basically here.
Generally speaking, even the women rarely enter Su Chen’s study, because it is full of treasures. If you don’t pay attention to the damage, it will be a loss of at least hundreds of thousands or even millions.
Of course, this is also the most desirable place for Yu pangzi’s three brothers, Yu Yu and others.
There is a rumor outside that you don’t know what wealth is until you have a look in boss Su’s study.
There are five wing rooms on both sides, including three bedrooms, which are mainly used for the stay of parents, relatives and friends.
The remaining four rooms are conference room, dining room, entertainment room and cloakroom.
Yes, the women’s cloakroom fully occupied a large room, which was not enough. The women were making a total and refitting the bedroom next to the cloakroom into a cloakroom.
At the moment, the Su family, including Dahu, all gathered in the conference room.
The theme style of the conference room is very warm, and the layout is also very casual. It is not as rigid as the conference room. It has all kinds of furniture.
Sofa, lounge chair, hanging chair, massage chair, rotating chair and even swing. The reason for this layout is that we don’t want to be too serious and destroy the harmonious atmosphere of the family.
Only the Su family can enter this conference room. What is the Su family? It’s Su’s daughter-in-law and surnamed su. Besides, you can’t even take care of your parents.
This was put forward by Gu Qingya on her own initiative.
Including children’s education, parents should not intervene.
The elderly are more careful in taking care of their children, but some problems must also be recognized. There are often problems in educating children by the elderly, such as outdated ideas, the spread of bad habits, excessive doting, lack of science, and so on.
If it’s an ordinary family and their parents are busy working, there’s no way. The children can only be brought by the old man.
But the Su family, one by one, is more idle than the other, so the matter of educating children cannot be handed over to the elderly.
Gu Qingya attaches great importance to this problem, not only because the elderly have all kinds of problems with their children, but also because of the special environment of the Su family.
For example, if Gu’s father and mother take care of their children, at ordinary times, Gu’s father and mother will certainly ask some questions, such as whether your little mothers are good to you, whether your brother bullies you, how your father treats you, and so on. They will also teach him how to compete for toys, how to compete for food, and so on.
Don’t look after your father and mother. They usually treat several daughters equally, but when it comes to grandchildren, they will certainly be biased.
Every daughter has parents. If parents care for their grandchildren, the parents of other daughters will naturally prefer the children born to their daughters.
In this way, for a long time, there must be a rift between several children. They may become enemies with each other!
Why the children of big families fought with each other in the past, the root is here.
It is said that the environment is the best teacher for children. What kind of family environment will teach what kind of children.
As an elder sister, these things must be considered well.
To this end, Gu Qingya talked to her parents more than once.
For small families, it must be how harmony comes, but for large families, rules are absolutely the only magic weapon to maintain family harmony and stability.
So this is also the first question of today’s family meeting.
“Today’s family meeting has a lot of content. Let’s come one by one. The first is the child’s education.” Su Chen sat on his big sofa, holding hands together and speaking slowly.
Hey, I haven’t even had a cigarette since I had children.
“In fact, to tell the truth, our family basically came from ordinary families. When we were young, we basically didn’t know what family rules were, what our parents said and what we did. At that time, we thought it was good to have no family rules. Even when we watched TV, we scoffed at the rules in the Grand Courtyard on TV.
I always feel that people must be natural and unrestrained, how to do so many rules, are you tired?
I don’t know what you think. Anyway, that’s what I thought before the Su family. ”
The theme of the Su family’s meeting is often very important, but it’s not very serious at the meeting. It’s like chatting at home.
This is also the habit changed after the first meeting. Because the last meeting was too serious and made several women uncomfortable, Su Chen resolutely changed the rules.
“Hee hee, husband, like you, I always think so.”
“It must be the same. After all, no one likes to be bound by rules.”
The prostitute smiled and commented.
Su Chen smiled. “Yes, sometimes the rules are too rigid and inhumane. I didn’t understand them before, but now I gradually understand them. In fact, sometimes the rules are not to bind you, but to solve your worries and make you more natural and unrestrained.
Think about it. For example, in our family, we are not allowed to scold others at dinner. With this rule, we do feel some constraints when we eat and chat. But you think, if there is no this rule, third, when you eat, your eldest sister scolds you face to face, what would you do? ”
“Then I’m sure I’ll cry. People scold me for eating!” Guo Xiaoshi arched her nose.
“Yes, not only you but also I hate it. Therefore, we have this family rule. When we have this rule, will we have no fear of being scolded when we eat?”