It’s Not The Same - Chapter 10 The End

Then I thought of being tricky I said “I spoke to my parents about you, my dad said he wants to meet you and my mom said it’s not love, just infatuation.” He shouted “why you did that, what is the hurry to talk about it now itself to your parents, don’t you trust me, we would have done it later, after getting a good job and why you did that? Now what if your dad doesn’t like me? What if your mom says no? Crazy girl. No parent will allow their child to marry a jobless guy. The first rule of our relationship was that we won’t marry each other if our parents won’t agree. Now what are gonna do? I can’t live without you neither you can I was just trying to convince my parents for our wedding they are not ready to accept and now you are increasing my stress. You are just a control freak. You always behave like an immature idiot. You don’t know what should be done and what should not be done. Now why the hell are you silent, just speak up”

I really didn’t had anything to say. He loved me but avoided me because his parents didn’t agree. So now I’m unable to decide whether to hold on this relationship or to let go. Sometimes it’s better to let go than to hold in because holding on can destroy you more than letting go. I said “okay, then lets breakup”. He said “are you serious”. I said “yes”. He said “no. we will just try to convince them one we both settle down “. ” I said, no need for that, because the love within us died a long ago when you started hiding things from me”. He asked “what did I hide? ” I said “a very small thing, that your parents didn’t agree for our wedding”. ” hey! it’s not that actually I thought of telling you but I didn’t had that much guts to tell you” he said. “ya right, I never gave you that space to open up with me” I replied. The conversation went on like that. But the truth is in a relationship when you start hiding things love automatically fades. And leaves you.

Neither I left him, nor he left me, LOVE LEFT US

One day my dad asked me “why my charming flower has faded now?” I said “one prince took away the charm”. I said everything to my dad and he said he will convince Krishna’s family members for our wedding. I said ” no need dad, there is nothing left, everything is over”. He said “let me try once”. I said ” I don’t want to talk about it”. My dad said “one alliance has come for you, would you like to meet them? I know its not the correct time for all this but”. I said “its ok dad, I will meet them and I’m ready to marry anyone you like, my choice went wrong and your choice will never go wrong. You always chose the best for me and I don’t have any objection”.

Then they visited us. The groom didn’t come, his parents came and my parents met them, everyone were talking about wedding and all. I was not at all interested in all that talks. On the engagement day, when groom held my hand I felt the warmth and when I looked up and it was Krishna. We got engaged with our parents wish. Neither of us thought of this. Before coming to the engagement hall neither of us knew whom we were going to marry. On the engagement night we told our parents everything. Our parents were happy because we got each other and that too without any objection of our parents. We left each other for them but now we were together because of them.

Best part of love is getting married with parents wish.

You don’t marry a person whom you can live with, you marry the person who you cannot live with.