My Star Teacher - Chapter 669
Before night light get off to deal with the crash, Yiyi and liuchiyan didn’t come down, but they also saw it in the car.
Luminous back to the car, driving home again, Yiyi looked at luminous, asked, “luminous, why do you have to let him lose money?”
Luminous looked at Yiyi in the rearview mirror and said, “do you want to ask why I didn’t let him lose money before, but this man made him lose money?”
Yiyi nodded.
Luminous thought about it and said, “although I don’t want to teach you that, Yiyi, I have to tell you that people are different. Not all people are worthy of our kindness.”
Yiyi thought and said, “but didn’t you teach me to be kind to everyone and the world?”
Luminous suddenly some don’t know how to pick up Yiyi’s words.
This matter, perhaps any adult will not ask this kind of question, just like black and white, clear and thorough, no need to say more.
But Yiyi is not the same. She is still a child. She is at the age of developing her own world outlook. She has no way to look at and consider problems like an adult.
Luminous thought about it, and then said, “it’s right to treat everyone with kindness. But if you treat a person with kindness, but he doesn’t treat you with kindness, then you don’t need to treat him with kindness. Kindness doesn’t mean that we can let others bully us. Being kind to others is different from being bullied by others.”
“Like the little brother in front of the hot pot shop, he hit our car, but I don’t want him to lose money. It’s kind.”
“And just that person, he also hit my car, but he wants me not to let him lose money, that’s bullying.”
“In fact, it’s very simple. Kindness is up to you. It’s what you want.”
“And bullying is what he wants you to do.”
“You think and he thinks, that’s the difference.”
Luminous said, through the rearview mirror to see Yiyi.
Yiyi thought about it again, nodded his head, and then said, “it’s like I have a packet of snacks. I give them to other children. It’s kind, but before I give them food, they come to grab it. That’s bullying, right?”
“Er…” luminous smile, “almost.”
There is nothing wrong with Yiyi’s metaphor.
Liu ChiYan leaned against the car window and listened to their discussion about kindness. He didn’t interrupt. He just kept smiling and looked at the night light and Yiyi.
To tell the truth, Liu ChiYan always felt that although luminous and Yiyi had no blood relationship, luminous did a good job in the role of father.
He dotes on Yiyi, but he never indulges Yiyi. He teaches Yiyi well.
They have been married for more than two years, and Yiyi has lived with them for more than two years. Liu ChiYan asks herself that she has taken good care of Yiyi’s daily life in the past two years, but she has not done much to teach Yiyi, far less than luminous.
All along, it’s the night light that has been imperceptibly influencing, instructing and educating people.
Yiyi, a child of this age, has almost no other problems except that she can eat too much and is obsessed with eating. Of course, it’s not a problem that she can eat.
Liuchiyan still remember that Yiyi didn’t know what it was like before luminous.
At that time, Yiyi, lonely, even a little self abasement, was always noisy. Although she was kind-hearted, except for her appearance, she didn’t feel that many children of her age should be naive.
At that time, Yiyi was very strong, but she was not happy.
However, after Yiyi and luminous contact for a long time, Liu ChiYan found that everything was different.
She could feel that Yiyi’s cloudy heart was becoming more and more clear, like today’s general, sunny, blue as blue, cloudless.
Yiyi now can be so naive and lovely, kind and sensible, I have to say, luminous has a lot of credit.
In fact, night light is rare, or never. There is no direct education at home. Tell her what is right and wrong, and tell her what should be done and what should not be done.
If he wants to teach Yiyi something, or some truth, there will always be something, or some opportunity, as the introduction.
For example, night light and Liu ChiYan once took Yiyi to go shopping. When they were at a junction, there was no traffic between the left and the right, so a large group of people ran the red light and crossed the road.
At that time, Yiyi drags night light and Liu ChiYan to go with the crowd, but night light pulls her. When almost everyone runs the red light and crosses the road with the crowd, night light and Liu ChiYan lead Yiyi and stubbornly wait for the red light for more than half an hour.
And after the event, night light education Yiyi, tell him, no matter how others, you need to obey the rules, obey the traffic rules.In fact, if you put it in the normal time, when Yiyi is not around, he may not wait for the red light alone. It is very likely that he will also be one of the people who run the red light to cross the road with the crowd.
However, if Yiyi is around, luminous will never set such a bad example, because he knows very well how his words and deeds will affect Yiyi.
Parents are the best teachers for children.
To set an example is what luminous puts himself in the role of depending on his father, and what he thinks he should do and do, as a father.
In addition, in daily life, luminous will seize some opportunities to guide Yiyi positively.
For example, once, while waiting for the traffic lights, a mother with a boy about the same age as Yiyi stood by the luminous family.
Under the scorching sun, there is an sanitation worker on the opposite side of the road sweating to clean up the garbage.
The mother accused the sanitation workers of telling her children, “if you don’t study hard, the future results will be the same as him.”
At that time, Yiyi also heard it and turned to look at the mother.
Luminous touched Yiyi’s hair at that time, then pointed to the sanitation worker and said to Yiyi, “if you study hard, you will be able to create a better world for him.”
At that time, the sound was not loud, but it was enough for the mother and her children to hear.
The little boy also turned to look at the night light, and then looked at his mother.
The mother also looked at the night light, frowned slightly, then also touched her child’s head, said, “listen to my uncle.”
The little boy nodded with a smile
Sometimes, correct guidance is extremely important for children.
In fact, the core of both is the same, which is to educate children to study hard.
However, the former may be able to make children grow up out of the grass-roots and stand out.
The latter can benefit the society and change the world!