My uncle, take it easy - Chapter 1374

Zeng Quan nodded and said: “therefore, for ordinary people’s marriage, how to protect family property is the most important thing. Isn’t that the reason why you mentioned the legality of protecting women’s property after marriage? ”

Su fan nodded.

“Family is the basic unit of society. In this era of rapid economic development, family property disputes are more prominent than in the past. Do you think it’s true to talk about marriage without interest disputes? ” Tseng Chuen road.

“You’re right.” Su fan nodded and said, “for many families, especially women, they support their families with their husbands after marriage. However, if women can’t share the mortgage together, it’s hard to get a house when they divorce. It’s not fair. ”

Zeng Quan nodded and said, “don’t many women say that the new marriage law is to protect men’s property?”

He couldn’t help laughing.

“Isn’t it? Now there are a lot of experts on the Internet. What else can we say? After the bride price is accepted, if the bride withdraws, all the bride price will be returned. ” Su Fan said.

“This, isn’t it? There are many people cheating on marriage! For the poor, betrothal gifts are a lot of money. If they are cheated, isn’t it miserable? ” Tseng Chuen road.

“But it’s like human trafficking, don’t you think?” Su Fan said.

Zeng Quan is silent.

“I’ve seen many of them since I was a child. The man paid the bride price, the woman’s parents took it away and got married. After marriage, a lot of domestic violence can only be tolerated by the woman, because the man thinks that if they spend money to marry their daughter-in-law, the woman will have to be obedient. Do you know how many rural women commit suicide because of domestic violence?

Some women, being bullied by their mother-in-law’s family, go back to their mother-in-law’s house to seek help, but their mother-in-law’s house doesn’t let them divorce, because once they ask for divorce, the man will ask for betrothal gifts. Now, if there’s really something wrong with repentance and betrothal gifts have to be compensated, isn’t this situation even more serious? How can women’s status be guaranteed? ” Su Fan said.

“It’s a complicated thing.” Tseng Chuen road.

“I know it’s very complicated, so there are various laws and regulations that are basically protecting the rights of men, and so is public opinion. Occasionally, when the news comes out that there are several women cheating on their marriage, the society will whip them once, as if they are married to cheat their husband’s property. ” Su Fan said.

“That’s not right!” Tseng Chuen road.

“That’s right! To get married, two people should love each other, and then work together to maintain the stability and development of a family, raise children and be filial to their parents, rather than calculating property. In other words, for men, marriage is to find someone to be a free nanny, solve their physiological needs, give birth to their own children, and also be filial to the elderly for men. It shouldn’t be like this, right? ” Su Fan said.

Zeng Quan still made a pot of tea for two people, sat opposite her and said, “you’re right, but you’re talking about the ideal situation. In reality, it’s too difficult.”

“It’s just because it’s so difficult that we have to change and protect women’s rights and interests.” Su Fan said, “if it’s always difficult, just watch women’s life situation become more and more difficult.” Su Fan said, pausing and looking at Zeng Quan, “you say, if a society can’t even protect women’s legitimate rights and trade women as goods, is this a modern civilized society? Is this the country you want, Zeng Quan? ”

Zeng Quan looks at her.

“A woman is the foundation of a family, and a mother is the spiritual pillar of a family. If in a family, women, mothers are just goods and servants, what’s the future of children when they grow up? Even if the children of this family can study very well, they can’t face up to the value of their mother. Such children are not worth expecting at all. You say, don’t you? ” Su Fan said.

Zeng Quan poured her a cup of tea, nodded and said, “that’s why you are promoting those, isn’t it?”

Su fan nodded and said, “yes, we all say that a strong young man makes a strong country. But if his mother is not strong, how can a young man be strong? The mother is the person who has spent the longest time with the child and has the deepest impact on the child. If the child lives in an environment that discriminates against the mother and ignores the mother since childhood, how much distortion is it to the child’s psychological growth? ”

Zeng Quan nodded his head and said, “you are right. Respecting women is not just a matter of words. We should also protect women’s rights in practical actions and actions, and protect girls’ right to go to school, work, and even their property rights in marriage.

However, at this stage, our country is in a period of transition, and the development of various regions is unbalanced. It is very difficult to do such a thing. ”

Su fan nodded.

“Take what you said about betrothal gifts. For people in poor areas, they have worked hard for decades just to earn money to marry a wife. If the money is cheated, how can the family live? We can’t leave them alone. ” Tseng Chuen road.

“Do you want the government to give them a wife?” Su fan broke Zeng Quan’s words with a bitter smile. “For the sake of social stability, we have to sacrifice women, right?”

“Of course not, but don’t tell me. I’ve heard people asking for wives from the government.” Zeng Quan took a cup of tea, drank it, and said.

“I’ve heard that, too.” Su Fan said, “but how can marriage be free?”

“Yes, freedom of marriage. However, the ideology of many people in poor areas remains in the past. Because of the limitation of material conditions, they can only choose to exchange their daughter for their son’s marriage. ” Tseng Chuen road.

“So we should support girls to study and work, so that they can control their own destiny.” Su Fan said.

“What about the poor? What about the poor boys? It’s wrong to value men over women, but is it right to value women over men? ” Zeng Quan interrupts Su fan’s words.

“Of course not.” Su Fan said.

“So boys and girls have equal access to education. Equal access to education, equal access to jobs, equal gender awareness and values.

However, in the poor areas, although we have implemented compulsory education, exempted tuition and miscellaneous fees at the stage of compulsory education, and even taken actions such as free lunch, the root cause of preventing girls from receiving education is poverty.

If we can’t solve the problem of poverty, no matter how much efforts our government makes, no matter how much subsidies we give to education, there will still be a large number of girls dropping out of school, because for those poor families, it’s better for girls to go out to work early to earn money to support their families or get married rather than spend time studying.

Only by eliminating the material poverty can we guide the people to accept the idea of equality between men and women, let them face up to the status of women, and truly protect the rights and interests of women. Don’t you do the same thing in Xinjiang? ” Tseng Chuen road.

Su fan laughed, nodded and said, “so, I’m very grateful to my adoptive father and mother for my study. If they didn’t let me go to college, but let me work or marry like other girls, my life would not be like this. ”

“Yes, education will change people’s fate, especially for people at the bottom of society.” Tseng Chuen road.

“Although they treat my brother better than me, they can’t help it. I understand that I’m a girl. It’s too common for me to favor boys over girls. Secondly, they picked me up. They didn’t throw me away. It’s good enough, really. ” Su fan smiles and says.

Zeng Quan poured her a glass of water and said, “no one is perfect, especially her parents.”

Su fan nodded and said: “yes, I couldn’t understand it in the past. Although I told myself that I wanted to understand such things, it’s still another matter to really understand. But when I grew up, I understood. You’re right. We can’t ask our parents to be perfect. None of us is perfect. How can we ask our parents? For them, raising me for reading is enough for me to appreciate. ”

“To forgive our parents is also to let ourselves go.” Zeng Quan sighed.

“And you?” Su fan asked.

“Me? You say I’m good to my dad? ” Asked Zeng Quan.

Su fan nodded, looked at him and said, “few people like you will forgive my mother.”

Zeng Quan gave a bitter smile and said, “because I’ve forgiven my father for a long time.”

Sufan looks at him.

“I can’t interfere in their affairs. There’s no way to force one person to fall in love with another. If, if I just blame my father for not loving my mother and being indifferent to my mother, isn’t my father also very pitiful? ” Zeng Quan said, “it’s miserable to miss the chance of meeting true love because of marrying someone you don’t love. If you blame him again for this, you will hate him.”

When Su fan heard Zeng Quan say this, he felt that Zeng Quan was talking about himself.

“Besides, it’s their own business. What qualifications do I have to evaluate it?” Zeng Quan said and sighed, “what’s the use of me even if I blame my father and aunt Wen? My mother won’t live

“I’m sorry!” Su Fan said.

Zeng Quan gave a bitter smile and said, “what did you say I’m sorry? What does it have to do with you? My mother has been unfortunate. Can’t my father be unhappy because of my resentment? A lot of things can’t be changed. ”

“What about you and your sister-in-law? Is it the same? ” Su fan asked.

Zeng Quan looked at her, slightly stunned, and said, “it’s the worst. Where can it be bad?”

“What’s the matter with you?” Su fan asked.

She doesn’t know about Fang Xiyou and Shen Jianan.

Zeng Quan shook his head and said, “nothing, nothing, that’s it.”

“Do you regret your divorce?” Su fan looked at him and asked.

Zeng Quan, look at her.

Have you ever regretted it?

He sighed and poured a cup of tea for Sufan.

“I used to like hiyou.” He said.

Sufan looks at him.

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