My uncle, take it easy - Chapter 1375
“I loved her when I was a child. It’s just, later, later. ” Tseng Chuen road.
“What happened?” Su fan asked.
“Too many things happened later. I changed and she changed. Our environment,” Zeng quandun said, “now, I can’t say that I hate the arranged life. In this case, I have no way out. If I quit now, all the efforts of so many people for so many years are in vain, how can I afford them?”
“If you’re not happy, I think I might try to persuade you to divorce.” Su Fan said.
Zeng Quan looks at her.
“As you said before, if you don’t have the opportunity to choose, how can you have the opportunity to meet your own happiness?” Su Fan said.
Zeng Quan took a sip of tea.
“But if you divorce, a lot of things will be affected, won’t you? Besides, divorce doesn’t solve the problem, does it? ” Su fan asked.
Zeng Quan nodded.
“Well, what do you want? Do you want to achieve what people expect of you or do what you want to do. What do you want to do? ” Su fan looked at him and asked.
Zeng Quan looks at her.
“In fact, I’m not very clear about what I want to do. What I just told you, I’m also very confused about my future. However, I feel that I should find my own direction as soon as possible, and then make up my mind to go on. No matter how hard it is, I will try my best to go on.
If you don’t know what you should do, don’t force yourself to go according to the way arranged for you by others. Stop and think about what kind of life you want, your future, what you want to do, your dream, is to change this country, or to live a carefree life?
Because your choice of future career also affects your marriage, doesn’t it? What kind of career you choose means what kind of marriage you also want to choose, right? ” Su Fan said.
Zeng Quan sighed and said: “that time, the time I resigned, I, I decided never to come back, regardless of the past arrangements, don’t care about everyone’s efforts, and then I would be at ease. That way, I would live a lifetime, very relaxed in the past.”
“But you’re back.” Su Fan said.
“Yes, I’m back. Maybe, it’s because I can’t give up so many years, so many years of pay, and, “Zeng Quan said, looking at Su fan,” you said the word dream, dream. ”
Sufan looks at him.
Sufan looks at him.
“I think I should do something, do something seriously, not to let my family, not to let the leadership, not to let those I have never met disappointed.” Tseng Chuen road.
“You did a good job. Really Su Fan said.
Zeng Quan gave a bitter smile and said, “thank you for saying that.”
“I mean it.” Su Fan said, “what you are doing now is exactly what you want to do?”
“Yes! I want to do things like this, I want to do a lot of things. ” Tseng Chuen road.
“You can do it, too.” Su Fan said seriously.
Zeng Quan looked at her with a smile and said, “are you comforting me again?”
“I mean it! As long as you work hard, anything can be done well. ” Su Fan said.
Zeng Quan laughed and said nothing. He just took a sip of tea.
“Then you and your sister-in-law.” Su Fan said.
Zeng Quan looks at her.
“In fact, I’ve been thinking about you and my sister-in-law all these years.” Su Fan said.
“What happened?” Asked Zeng Quan.
“She has some shortcomings.” Su Fan said.
Zeng Quan still looks at her.
“For example, you and her may have nothing to say but work. For example, she may not understand your behavior and language very well, because she is a more rational person on the whole. You have more emotional elements. In other words, when you make decisions, you consider more emotional factors.
For another example, she is quite indifferent and doesn’t care about you very much, but when you go to Shanghai and Wuhan, doesn’t she follow you? For example, she didn’t seem to believe you very much in the case of Yang Siling, but she also made great efforts to solve it in the end. ” Su Fan said.
Zeng Quan said nothing.
“If you can’t divorce her, just think about what advantages she has and what you should like. Don’t you say that you once liked her? Even if people will change, but if you two can get back the feeling of the past. ” Su Fan said, see Zeng Quan without saying a word, then pause, way, “tear down a house, than repair a house, more difficult.”
“You mean that if I get divorced, I may not, may not have a better marriage, do you?” Asked Zeng Quan.
“No one can give you an answer to this question.” Su Fan said and poured a cup of tea for Zeng Quan. “Life is very short. You two have known each other for more than 30 years and have been married for nearly 10 years. If you can’t fall in love with someone for such a long time, how likely are you to fall in love with another woman in the future life?”
“Are you bluffing?” Tseng Chuen road“ I don’t want to scare you. I just want to say that if there is something wrong with marriage, evasion is not the solution. ” Su Fan said, “I also want to divorce Huo Shuqing. Because of Yifei, I want to divorce him. However, when I really speak up and feel that I want to lose him, the whole world will collapse. I know that no matter how big a problem I have with him, no matter what happens, I can’t leave him. I can’t forget him in my life. ““ Our situation is different from yours. ” Tseng Chuen road“ Yes, it’s different. ” Su Fan said, “but there is one thing that is the same.” Zeng Quan looks at her“ I only have Huo Shuqing in my heart and you in my sister-in-law’s heart! ” Su Fan said seriously. Zeng Quan laughed, silently“ Are you trying to laugh at what I said? ” Su fan asked“ I remember you two fighting in front of your wife, didn’t you Tseng Chuen road“ Yes, once. ” Su Fan said“ You two are in such a relationship. Do you want to speak for her? ” Zeng Quan said, “you don’t have to be like this, Sufan! You don’t have to please her. You don’t have to persuade me Please“ If my brother can be happy, what’s wrong with me to please her? ” Su Fan said“ Yeah, you’re right. You’re right. ” Zeng Quan said, lying back and saying nothing. If she had me in her heart, she would not do that with Shen Jianan. However, he didn’t want to tell Sufan about it, and he didn’t want Sufan to worry about himself. He doesn’t need others to feel sorry for himself“ You two have been advised by many people, but it seems that the situation has not changed much. Then you have to ask yourself, what do you want, Zeng Quan, what kind of marriage and life do you want? This is the question you want to answer. Answer to yourself and give yourself an explanation. If you can’t pass this pass in your heart, no matter what others say, you won’t make up your mind! ” Su Fan said. Zeng Quan, look at her. You can search Baidu for the latest chapter of “Uncle chatting about jiutao novels “! This novel has been translated by www.novelhall.com and if you are reading this somewhere, they have stolen our translation.