My uncle, take it easy - Chapter 1402

“What’s the use of arguing with me? Are you a new woman? Women’s rights? ” Said the mother.

Fang Xiyou did not speak.

“Xiyou, I don’t mean to ask you to kowtow to your parents-in-law all day long and bring tea and water, but now you really need to put down your posture and face others with a low attitude. What you want to get is the trust from the heart of others, just like the way the Zeng family and the Ye family get along with Wenyin, which is to exchange their hearts, that is, to treat you as a family, as a friend, trust you and support you.

This is not only what you should get as a woman, but also what you should get from everyone when you sit in that position with quan’er in the future.

Why does ma’am make us feel so close and willing to get along with her? Have you thought about that? ” Asked the mother.

“Madam, she is very kind. She always puts herself in other people’s shoes…” Fang Xiyou thinks.

“You’re right. You put yourself in other people’s shoes. Only when you look straight at others, can you see each other’s heart and enter each other’s heart. ” Said the mother.

Fang Xiyou is in deep thought.

“Xiyou, you have always been excellent and good, and many people like you. However, how many of these people like you because you are you? I’m afraid that what they like is the name you represent, not you. ” Said the mother.

Fang Xiyou, looking at his mother.

Do you like me because I am me?

Fang Xiyou’s heart stopped.

Shen Jianan?

However, she did not speak.

“You always worry about quan’er’s liking of Gaines, but why does quan’er like Gaines? Because he doesn’t feel estranged by Gayne. Gayne and he are equal. He knows that Gayne can understand him… “His mother said.

“You didn’t do it, did you?” Fang Xiyou said.

“Yes, that’s why your father and I failed. I, like you, was very proud when I was young. I like your father very much. When I was young… “Jiang Min said, with an unnatural smile on her face.

Fang Xiyou, stunned, looked at his mother.

Mother, like father?

“Your father was very handsome when he was young, even now. Moreover, he, how to say, has no airs and is easy to get close to. However, perhaps because he is such a person, he is not very special to anyone. I was quite proud at that time. Although your father is good in all aspects, as a girl, I hope he can take the initiative to like what I pursue… “Mother said with a sigh.

“You’ve been waiting for my dad to bow?” Fang Xiyou was stunned and asked.

His mother nodded and sighed: “it’s really stupid to think about it. At that time, I waited for him to take the initiative. I knew I liked him very much, but I just couldn’t open my mouth. One mouth was hurtful words…”

“I may have inherited it from you.” Fang Xiyou grinned bitterly.

“It seems so.” The mother sighed.

Fang Xiyou looks at his mother.

“Later, when I got married, your father was still like that, and he was not warm or cold to me. At that time, I didn’t find out who he liked. Maybe, maybe what he liked and what moved him was Jinzhi! ” Jiang Min road.

Fang Xiyou was stunned and stared at his mother.

“You mean aunt Jin?” Fang Xiyou asked.

Mother nodded, said: “at that time, not only your father, but also your father-in-law, and…” mother stopped, Fang Xiyou was shocked.

“They all like Jin Zhi. Jinzhi is also a very attractive person. She is a beautiful and smart girl. Really, I was shocked when I saw Jinzhi for the first time. I felt that she came out of the book and that she was a living Daiyu! That temperament, that appearance, that talent, really, if I were a man, I would like her, too. ” Jiang Min road.

“My father and they all like the type of aunt Jinzhi…” Fang Xiyou sighed.

“Yes, they do. But in the end, your father-in-law married her… “Jiang Min said.

“Is this also the choice made by the last generation after weighing?” Fang Xiyou asked his mother.

Jiang Min nodded.

Fang Xi sighed for a long time.

“Your father, in fact, is a good man. After so many years, he remembers a summer snow. As for what he thinks of Jin, it’s all in quan’er. ” Said the mother.

Fang Xiyou, no words.

“But, how to say, Jinzhi, she’s excellent and perfect. Maybe it’s because she’s so perfect that people won’t be easy to get close to her. Only in this way can we feel that she’s standing far away, far away from people. She’s beautiful in the woods.” Jiang Min road.

“She makes people have a sense of distance, but aunt Wen is easy to make people feel close. That’s why my father-in-law likes aunt Wen so much, right?” Fang Xiyou asked.

“I think so! From the perspective of Jin Zhi and Wen Yin, your father-in-law loves Wen Yin so much. Maybe that’s why. ” Jiang Min road.

Fang Xiyou, silence.

“Men, they say that men like to have a confidant like Lin Daiyu, but they want a wife like Xue Baochai. A wife is different from a confidant. Jin of people appreciate, but not easy to close, like a piece of jade, ice. Wenyin, however, is living, like a pool of water and a fire. People, after all, live in reality. ” Jiang Min road.

“So you think I’m the same as aunt Jinzhi, don’t you?” Fang Xiyou asked.

“If you were the same, quan’er would have fallen in love with you.” Said the mother.

Fang Xiyou was speechless for a moment.

“In fact, the failure of my marriage with your father is also because I am too stubborn to tolerate him, understand him and sympathize with him.” With that, Jiang Min sighed.

“You also don’t take responsibility to yourself, I think my father may still like the type of aunt Jinzhi, isn’t Xia Xue very similar?” Fang Xiyou said.

Jiang Min shook his head slightly.

“Am I right?” Fang Xiyou asked.

“It’s not all right.” Jiang Min said, “your father, he really wants someone to understand him and become a confidant with him. And I, the two of us, don’t even bother to talk. How do you say to be a confidant? ”

Fang Xiyou seems to understand something.

“If a person is too lazy to talk to you, how can you have a chance to become a confidant with him?” Mother looked at Fang Xiyou and said.

Fang Xiyou fell into deep thinking.

“Xiyou, the men we married, they have their ideas and pursuits, great pursuits, so they are different from ordinary men. For ordinary men, marriage means that two people live together and share the economic pressure that one can’t bear; Or if you have a lot of money, you can find a wife to breed for yourself and support your parents. If you have a weak relationship with your wife and quarrel, you should go out and have an affair.

However, for your father and quan’er, what they want is a woman who can understand themselves and a confidant. If the wife is not such a person, they will look for it from the outside. It’s not hard for them to find such a confidant! ” Jiang Min road.

Fang Xiyou said nothing.

“The mistake of your father and I was that I gave up the opportunity to communicate with your father too early, so that we went farther and farther. After a long time, we would have resentment and cold words. Now, we can’t recover it.” Mother said, holding Fang Xiyou’s hand.

Fang Xiyou, looking at his mother.

“Xiyou, I don’t want you to be the same as me. At this age, I still don’t know what to say with your father. I don’t know if he wants to hear what he says. I also want to be the one in your father’s heart, but I have no hope in my life. Do you want to be like me? ” Said the mother.

Fang Xiyou, I can’t say anything.

Mother and father, at least there are some family matters to discuss, about her can be said. And she and Zeng quan

“Quan’er wants a home, someone who can listen to him, someone who has a lot in common with him. You gave this opportunity to Gayne. Now, you can’t continue to be wrong and push the spring out. Even if he and Cain are cut off, there will be another woman.

At that time, he won’t control anything any more. Do you want to watch that woman give birth to a child for quan’er and let you raise it? ” Said the mother.

“But now I’m not, not at all…” Fang Xiyou said.

“Don’t worry, Xiyou. We’ll help you. Mom will help you. You just need to adjust your mind, lower your figure, and start over. Even if you don’t go to quan’er to do anything, you should start to change yourself, be an ordinary wife, and let him feel that he still has a home.

Quan’er wants a home for you. Now I will give it to him and you. I’ll help you, and venin will help you.

Self cultivation, this is what you have to do now. Want to save your marriage, from now on, there is still a chance Mother looked into Fang Xiyou’s eyes and said patiently.

Fang Xiyou, looking at his mother, could not say anything.

Is there a chance?

Does she have a chance?

“Just now, Sufan told me that I told her that I couldn’t give up my dream. Now, she gave it back to me.” Fang Xiyou said.

Mother, I don’t understand.

“Mom, my dream, my dream, is to go down with ah Quan, to realize our dream together with him, and I forget it.” Fang Xiyou said quietly.

“It’s not too late to understand!” The mother held her daughter’s hand tightly and tears welled up in her eyes.

“I won’t give up ah Quan, never, I won’t let anyone take him away, no matter what the price is, I won’t give him away! Absolutely not Fang Xiyou said.

Never give him to anyone else!

It’s just, there’s a chance, is there any more? Time, anything else?

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