Parental Qualification Certificate - Chapter 19

“Do you think you won’t take the mask off in your lifetime because of your condition?” Qiao Wangchuan asked Su Yutan softly.

Su Yutan nodded: “Basically … yes.”

“I don’t know much about this disease. But online sources say that it has a great impact on people and often makes people make some incredible choices at critical moments. Why is this?”

“Because‘ the subconscious is the boss ’!”

“What do you mean?”

“This is a psychological proverb. It means: When people are facing choices, it is not your consciousness that makes the decision, but your subconscious mind.”

Qiao Wangchuan looked at her, waiting for her to continue.

Su Yutan explained to him: “When facing choices, our consciousness only analyzes the possible consequences of different choices based on memory, experience, knowledge and collected information. It is like an employee in a company , Doing a feasibility report on a project. “

Qiao Wangchuan nodded slightly and understood: “Then subconsciously make a choice based on this feasibility report, like a boss in a company?”

“Yes. The subconscious will make choices based on his own tendency and the analysis of his consciousness.”

“What is the” conscious tendency “of the subconscious?” Qiao Wangchuan continued to ask with curiosity, but his tone was very flat.

“Simply put, it is the one which is more preferred between the pursuit of the desire and the escape from the exclusion.”

“It’s like in a company, does the boss tend to pursue profit or avoid risk?”

“That’s right. There are many spiritual sources of motivation in the human subconscious mind. But in general, they can be classified into these two categories: pursuit of what is desired and escape from exclusion.”

“Can you give an example?” Qiao Wangchuan said. “It’s a bit abstract.”

Su Yutan began to give an example: “For example: a product that is useless to you, can you buy it? Buying is to pursue the pleasure of shopping; not buying is to avoid wasting money. This choice depends only on your subconscious, whether it is more eager for shopping pleasure or more exclusive to waste money.

“Another example: you refused to let me visit the little pigeon before, just to avoid trouble, to avoid the harm I could cause to the little pigeon, and longed to give the little pigeon a safe environment for growth.”

Qiao Wangchuan laughed: “Then I changed my mind now, what am I longing for? What to avoid?”

Su Yutan said, “What you desire and evade has not changed. What has changed is the ‘feasibility report’ submitted by your consciousness.

“Now this ‘new report’ has lowered my risk index for hurting the pigeons, and has increased the index of income that allows me to visit the pigeons. Of course, this ‘revenue’ does not refer to money but to the growth of the pigeons Benefits.

“Overall, whether you refused me before or changed your mind now, it’s all about caring and loving the little pigeons. Unless there is any hidden reason in between.”

Qiao Wangchuan thought about it and concluded, “There is no hidden reason. You analyzed it very accurately.”

Then he inferred the following: “The reason why the subconscious trauma syndrome has a great impact on people is that it makes the subconscious” boss “abnormal?”

“Yes. This disease will distort, alienate, and reverse the spiritual power in the subconscious. It will make people long for what they shouldn’t want, exclude what they shouldn’t, and make the direction and power of desire and exclusion different from ordinary people.”

Seeing that Qiao Wangchuan was a little confused, Su Yutan decided to give another simple example: “Have you heard of ‘banana phobia’?”

Qiao Wangchuan shook his head. He knew very little about the psychological and spiritual realms.

“Will anyone be afraid of bananas?” He felt a little weird.

“This is a classic case in the history of psychology.

“A thousand years ago, a lady Fran was mischievous when she was seven years old. His brother hid a banana in her bed and scared her. Since then, Ms. Fran saw bananas and banana-like Objects have a strong sense of fear. “

Qiao Wangchuan’s face showed a rare look of dullness.

Su Yutan went on to say: “That scare engraved a scar in Fran’s subconscious. This was a subconscious trauma. This scar engraved in the subconscious alienated part of her spiritual power and made her subconscious be right. Bananas produced the wrong rejection.

“When rejection is strong to a certain degree, it is fear.

“As long as this alienation does not disappear, her subconscious will always strongly reject bananas, and her fear of bananas will not disappear. Even if her consciousness says a thousand times and ten thousand times:” bananas are not dangerous “bananas are harmless ‘, It doesn’t work at all. “

“Unexpectedly a banana, a prank can lead to such serious consequences. The subconscious is more easily injured than I thought.”

Su Yutan sighed, “So many people have subconscious trauma syndrome.”

“is it a lot?”

“A lot. But about 67% of them are first-level and have little impact on people; 23% are second-level; 6% are third-level … In short, the more serious the disease, the fewer the cases, and the reduction very obvious.”

“The heavier the trauma, the worse the illness?” Qiao Wangchuan looked at Su Yutan and asked slightly carefully.

“Yes. But the same injuries, the actual trauma caused to different people are completely different. This is related to the age of the victim, and also to many factors in the subconscious.

“Then let’s say something else.” Qiao Wangchuan held up the coffee cup, took a sip, and asked her with a smile, “Do you know why I donate germ cells?”

“why?”

“I donated it when I was eighteen years old. At that time, I was going to do something very dangerous and unpredictable. I was afraid I would not return, so I donated it once.”

Su Yutan nodded: “This is a very normal mentality.”

She didn’t ask him what he did.

He didn’t say “I’m going to do XX” directly, but he didn’t mean to say it.

Sure enough, Qiao Wangchuan directly turned the topic to another direction: “Actually, I was surprised that the cells I donated matched successfully.”

Su Yutan smiled for a moment and couldn’t help laughing: “Because the pairing conditions you mentioned are very harsh?”

The donation and matching of germ cells is a two-way or three-way selection process.

Donors can provide “matching conditions” and “adoptor conditions” to ensure that the donated germ cells will not be paired with low-quality heterosexual germ cells; ensure that their bloodline descendants will not fall into the hands of inadequate adopters .

Qiao Wangchuan put down the coffee cup, and bent his fingers to start counting: “First, the paired egg provider must have a spiritual level of at least 25%.”

Su Yutan, who was drinking coffee, almost sprayed out the coffee in his mouth: “What a coincidence! The matching condition I proposed also reached 25% spirituality.”

People with a spiritual level of more than 20% are rare.

The condition of 25% spirituality is very, very harsh, and they are even matched!

“Then we really have a tacit understanding.” Qiao Wangchuan had a pure smile on his face and bent his second finger, “The second matching condition: the main talent evaluation of the egg provider must reach A + level. . Of course, there is no limit to the type of talent. “

Su Yutan couldn’t help raising her eyebrows, and felt a little funny in her heart: “We do have a good understanding. I have mentioned the same conditions.”

“What is your main talent?” He asked her.

“Painting. How about you?”

“Scientific research.” Qiao Wangchuan said with a strange look. “What kind of child will be born when you combine the talents of art with rigorous and meticulous research?”

Su Yutan laughed: “I’ll slowly find out later. What is your third matching condition?”

Qiao Wangchuan flexed his third finger: “The third pairing condition: 100% genetic health.”

Su Yutan rubbed his forehead: “It’s the same condition again. If this is an exam, the teacher probably suspects that we cheated, right?”

100% genetic health is also an easy target to reach.

Because many people’s genes carry some recessive inherited disease-causing genes, especially in the 31st century when genetic mutations are high.

Qiao Wangchuan let go of his hand and looked at her with interest: “What do you ask of the adopter?”

Su Yutan gave a cough, put down the coffee cup, and began to pinch her fingers: “First, there is stable work and income, and the annual income in the last five years is not less than 500,000; Third, the type of interpersonal attachment must be safe, and the index to avoid intimacy and anxiety should not exceed 1%. “

The type of interpersonal attachment is safe, and it is the group with the healthiest mentality and the easiest to get happiness.

Of course, the index that avoids intimacy and worry about being abandoned is less than 50%, and can be classified as safe; these two indexes are less than 1%, which is relatively rare.

Qiao Wangchuan said with a smile: “My annual income requirement for adopters in the last five years is: not less than 1 million. The second point is: I have no criminal record with my immediate blood relatives and blood relatives within three generations. I do not have mental health The main requirement is that I did not expect to go there. “

Su Yutan also felt funny: “Fortunately, the matching conditions and adoption conditions we filled in are only known to the artificial intelligence of the reproductive service center, and only artificial intelligence is involved in the matching process.

“Otherwise, those staff would definitely think: we are not going to donate, but we are going to make trouble.”

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After saying goodbye to Qiao Wangchuan, Su Yutan took a flying saucer home.

Along the way, she contacted Avril.

Avril has completed the transfer of work and visited Anuo.

Now, Arnold is being held by his father. Grandpa and Grandpa and Grandpa Zeng are accompanied by them, and they are shopping together to buy shoes. Avril needed time to calm down and went home by herself.

After hanging up the phone, Su Yutan clicked to see when there was information prompt from the work group.

In the work group, her boss, Tang En, notified her about the discovery and rescue of a missing child who had been hidden for five years, and publicly praised her for her ability and performance.

Other social workers in the same group followed her with a message, congratulating and welcoming her.

Su Yutan replied in the group, humbly saying that she just happened to meet. If the seniors encountered the same situation, the child would be saved as well.

While chatting with colleagues, Chen Ruoshui made another video call to her: “A Tan, I’ve done something sorry for you.”

A pathetic look.

Su Yutan calmly asked, “What’s the matter?”

Chen Ruoshui guilty and said stupidly: “I gave your contact information to that handsome guy with Danfeng eyes!”