Queen of Flowers - Chapter 105
On the issue of children, Yong Ruo’s concept is beyond the times.
She believes that a child is an independent living body and should not be used as a gift to reward others; it should not be used as a tool to carry on the line or achieve other purposes.
Therefore, in her mind, “Feng Liang is very good to me, and I should have a child in return for him”, or “Feng Liang needs a child to stabilize the situation and inherit the country, I should have an heir to him” Class ideas.
When thinking about whether to have a child, she would not consider “how happy we will be when we have children” or “we need a child.”
She would only consider: Are Fengyou and I prepared to be parents? Can we take care of our children and educate them? Can we let our children grow into an independent and sound person?
Because of this idea of transcending the times, she was so entangled in the question of whether to have a child.
As a very rational psychologist, Yong Ruo knows how hard it is to be a good parent.
Children will have their own natural attributes, but their thoughts and personality are shaped by the environment and experience.
During the child’s growth, some small things may cause the child’s psychological and cognitive deviations.
If parents can’t find it in time and guide them properly, they can only watch their children stay on some devious roads without looking back, and they still don’t understand why the children are like that.
Those who do not love children are certainly not suitable for having children or raising children.
But having children is not enough just to love them. Raising children is actually a technical job.
She is not the kind of person who decides to have a child when her mind is hot, and then in the process of raising a child, she will be confused and messy when she encounters a problem.
She will do everything she can to get ready before giving birth.
For her, one of the most important preparations is to adjust her thinking and mental state to be in line with the social environment and mainstream concepts of this era.
In case she is a person who specializes in psychology, the children she teaches are disconnected from the society and excluded from the mainstream society. In that case, the child will be very painful.
Yesterday she felt guilty and felt selfish, not because she didn’t have children.
She felt guilty because she concealed some truth from Feng Liao in order to keep her hole cards. Her approach was to impose her thoughts on Feng Liang.
On raising children, she and Feng Liao have many things to communicate.
This part is not urgent.
Her priority was to think clearly: to have one or to have several?
This involves the change of imperial power, which must be carefully considered, because she does not want to see her child kill each other for the throne.
If the throne is counted as an inheritance, then it is an indivisible and unshareable heritage.
The throne can only be passed on to one person. Is it better to have only one boy?
After thinking for a long time, she gave up the idea.
First of all, if there is only one child, this child’s life is easy to be used as a essay. In particular, Feng Liao had been declared lifeless by the elder doctor before.
Secondly, getting along with brothers and sisters is an important lesson for children to learn interpersonal processing skills. If this lesson is missing, it is not easy to make up.
And more importantly: if she has only one child with Feng Liang, this child will become the nail of many ambitions, and the danger he faces will be greatly increased.
This is obvious. When the emperor’s only son dies, the emperor will have to inherit—the operating space in it will make many people want to get into it.
Although she has a system, if the child is seriously injured or dies directly, the system may be helpless.
Take a step back and say that even if you can use the system to save your child, the danger or assassination you experienced in the first place will likely have an inestimable negative impact on your child’s psychology.
He will feel insecure and become suspicious.
If she has more children, who will she pass on to the throne in the future?
How can a child without a throne be treated?
After thinking about it for several days, she got a general direction.
She asked: “If I am pregnant, can I optimize the child’s attribute value?”
He said, “Of course! Before the child is born, the fetus is in your body, and the cost of optimizing the attribute value of it is the same as yours, so you don’t have to triple it.”
Yong Ruo was relieved: Good! You can save a lot of points!
Yong Ruo spent 400 points to relieve her contraception.
Follow her tip: After three days, she will ovulate. If all goes well, the next time auntie can be postponed to about a year later.
On the day of ovulation, she was extremely enthusiastic about Feng Liang.
Feng Liao enjoyed a lot of good luck.
Ten days later, Xun told Yong Ruo: the embryo had successfully implanted.
She is pregnant!
A few days after the letter period, Yong Ruo’s aunt disappeared, and Huarou began to mumble.
When Xu Taiyi came to diagnose Ping An’s pulse, she told Xu Taiyi the situation.
Xu Taiyi frowned and consulted for a long time, saying conservatively: “There is no abnormality in the pulse of the mother-in-law. Come and see again in a few days! During this time, it is best for the mother-in-law and the emperor to separate their beds, and there should not be too intense activities … … “
These taboos that he said made Huarou’s eyes light up: “The Taiyi means … the mother is pregnant ?!”
is it possible? The emperor was not sterilized by Feng Baoquan, who had lost all his goodness. Should he be killed for life?
Xu Taiyi shook his head: “Not necessarily. There are several possibilities, but there are several possibilities for the letter period. Now I still don’t know which one is good. Chen said that, just to be safe, just in case.”
Yong Ruo smiled lightly: “There is a doctor who is overworked. Please ask the doctor not to show off, so as not to rejoice in a joke.”
Xu Taiyi glanced at Yong Ruo and asked tentatively, “Isn’t my mother seem surprised?”
Yong Ruo skillfully played Tai Chi: “Isn’t Tai Yi saying that there are several possibilities? It’s too early to be surprised.”
Feng Ruo came back at night, and Yong Ruo told Xu Taiyi to let them split up.
Feng Liao was surprised: “Dr. Tai Tai Xu said: Are you pregnant?”
“He’s not sure.”
“But didn’t you say … that you Fanglang said … would you … Ziyu is difficult?” Feng Liang stuttered.
Yong Ruo said sorry to Feng Liao: “I don’t know why this happened.”
Out of prudence and rationality, she still didn’t want to expose Feng Liao’s hole cards to the system.
Because she did not dare to put her and her children’s entire future on Fenghao’s character and love. That’s too risky.
Wei Zifu once dominated the harem.
She had been a queen for many years, and her son Liu was named a prince. But what happened?
Due to the suspiciousness of the emperor and the framed by several villains, Wei Zifu and her sons and daughters, and many of her relatives, were either killed or forced to death and could only die.
There was only a great irony left when the love and the two minds agreed.
Yong Ruo didn’t want to fall to the point where Wei Zifu was, and he couldn’t bear to end up with his own children like Liu Jiu and Princess Zhu Yi.
Therefore, she must keep a hole card so that no matter what happens to herself and her child, she will not be able to protect herself.
“We … really have children?” Feng Liao looked at Yong Ruo’s belly in cyanosis.
He had no idea that things would turn around like this one day.
Xu Taiyi had previously quietly told him that the sterilization power of his body had completely dissipated, just like many victims of sterilization in Beijing.
He had a moment’s surprise at the time, but immediately remembered that if he had been interrupted by the Yu Fanglang, he would have a hard time. Therefore, he ordered Xu Taiyi not to speak up, lest he and Ruo Ruo be troubled.
Yong Ruo sighed slightly: “Who knows? It’s not too late to be happy when Tai Tai Xu has got a promise.”
Feng Liao touched her belly and sighed slightly: “It’s the same.” Lest it be a joyous moment, and her heart was even more lost.
Two months later, Tai Tai Xu finally made a promise: “Congratulations to the emperor! Congratulations to the queen’s wife! It is indeed a vein of love, and the mother is happy!”
Feng Liao was crying with joy.
“If Ruo, we have children! We finally have our children!”
He carefully pulled Yong Ruo’s hand and looked at her belly, tears streaming down.
“Yeah! We have children!”
At this moment, Yong Ruo also wanted to cry. She had never thought before that she would have children in such an era.
“Will it be a son or a daughter?” Feng Liao said hopefully, “If it were a son, I would have someone else; if it was a daughter, let us choose the best horse in the world for her in the future.”
Yong Ruo thought to yourself: Someone has succeeded you. I already told her: a boy. On the issue of identifying the **** of the fetus, 漉 漉 is much smarter than B.
The two were happy for a while.
Feng Liao went to Cishou Palace to confess to the Queen Mother.
The Queen Mother was really unprepared and was extremely surprised.
“Isn’t Taiyi saying,” Did you have a sterilization medicine? Why … why could the queen be pregnant? “
Feng Liao laughed: “After the mother, when Tai Tai Xu gave me a diagnosis of Heianmai, I found that the sterilization power in my body had dissipated. It was only for the purpose of tracing Kurongge’s case.
The fact that the power of the sterilization medicine had dissipated on a large scale was also known to the Empress Dowager.
After hearing Feng Liang’s words, she no longer wondered, but felt incredible.
She froze for a long time, and smiled bitterly in her heart: the great thing that the sterilization medicine failed, why did she and Xiandi not catch up? It seems that she and Xiandi still lack some good fortunes!
Yong Ruo began to raise a child. While communicating with Feng Liang about her child’s education, she also began to plan to deal with Ku Rongge.
She is pregnant. Kurong Pavilion, which has reached the edge of the cliff, will never give up.