Rebirth to have a happy life - Chapter 61：Day of Question and Answers

“Next question”

” Teacher you asked about Anil Ambani, can you tell us in detail or you own respective” A young girl asked

“Again a very good question, After their property got divided, Anil Ambani planned to open one company at a time, Reliance Energy, Reliance Infra, Reliance Capital, Reliance Telecommunications raised huge capital, He bought Big FM, built the Mumbai Metro, and invested money in many strategic locations, But it was their instinct to do many things at once. Their main business was a telecommunication, they did not pay enough attention to its growth, and this is where the losses came from. As the days went by, one company after another lost money, expensive loans started to take over, Reliance Telecommunications, which has a huge network of optical fibers all over the country, starting with the inspiration of the elders, did not survive the competition, eventually closing in on debt. Rafael deal is the last stroke and it is over It was time for them to go to jail for not paying Erikson fifteen crores, but eventually, Mukesh, the older brother rushed to his aid, Anil Ambani who have business is in blood and is now again starting and struggling to make his empire once again”

“I am a Branch manager in a big company and I don’t know that should I start a business or not because right now I have a 4-year-old child, and my job is also good, I can’t figure out should I do my own business or continue my job?”

“Great question, lots of the time we don’t know what to do, right? at this type of situation do a simple task take a paper and pen, sit in quite place and ask yourself why you wanted to do this, lots of the time people started to do things because of temporary attraction or motivation, but after some time they loose their interest, lots of people do business because they think this way they can earn more money and find more time and freedom, but it is not 100% true, in business you are bound with your work for 24*7 in at least initial state so your why must be bigger, so what is your why, why you want do this, not only in business but in other aspects of your life you must ask yourself, why I want to do this thing, why I want to learn these things, people live in unhealthy relationship because they are not clear what they want, they doesn’t actually want relationship, but they have fear of being single, we don’t even define what is good relationship, what is good life, we live according to what other decided as a happy life like getting married until your 30, earning lot of money, travelling to famous places is all consider happiness, having six packs, looking slim is happiness but this is really true? lots of the time we do the things because we are not clear about our goals, 80% of people are not make there definition of success, for some people spending time with family and spending money without worry is success, for some people earning a certain amount of money is success, and let me warn you success and happiness are different words, and I suggest you that don’t relate your happiness with things and person and even events, be happy for you are alive, be happy for small things, make your own definition of success, for you mam, you must think right now what is important for you, and what is your financial situation, if you start doing business what difficulties you might face and it will affect your health and family, and lastly ask your self will regret this decision after 5 years, if the answer is yes then you are clear, lots of people thinks that we must be positive about everything, but no you must be think about the negative outcomes too, and try to minimize them, but yup only thinking and not doing anything is not good, Action might not bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action, if you really wanted to do business you even can do without leaving your job, at the end of the day what matters is your happiness, certain amount of money or fame doesn’t make you happy, you should clear and honest with yourself. so today’s exercise that you must write down what is your biggest goal and why you wanted to achieve this”

Listening to this Aditi thinks about herself, she also make her bucket list but lots of things are she copied form others, thinking this what she wanted most is having a good family, eating with them some tines go to travel not too famous places but near to mother nature, eating tasty food, yup she wanted to do business but not wanted to be super busy like Raman and Mahendra, she want a relationship in which they can spend time together without lots of worries. but will this possible, thinking this she unconsciously raise her hand, seeing this teacher asked her what she wanted to ask, Aditi actually doesn’t have the courage but after a minute she asked: ” Teacher I wanted to do a business but I don’t want work hard, my priority my happiness is spending time with my children’s, but I also want to do something which I will be proud, will this possible?”

Aditi immersed in all this while on the other side children are missing her when they reach home, they all are sulking, Mahendra also realized that after meeting Aditi his children show a lot of expressions, and express quite well, also there is chinu, this little boy is so cute, he also want to become his favorite just like Aditi is favorite person of his children. Today he decided that he will play with them, so he started talking with them, but seeing no response from chinu he got worried and ask him what he is thinking, chinu look at him and asked: “Uncle is I am an idiot?”Mahendra also heard their conversation, but he doesn’t say anything because he is not sure who is Nisha first and second he really doesn’t know what happens, but that time also he gets angry, he decided that he will investigate about her and show her who is good for nothing, but now how to make chinu smile is most important question, but before he answer Mishty answered, “no, you are not, Idiots are those who doesn’t;t know anything you know lots of things right, you know how to read, you know three languages, and you also know that saying bad things about other is bad thing, your Nisha Aunt must be idiot because she doesn’t have basic manners.”

“Yes, chinu Mishty is right, isn’t it Daddy?” Mihir replied

“Yes, chinu you are not only smart but also cute” listening this Chinu smiled brightly and said thank you shyly after that he said that he will study hard just like his mother, listening to this Mishty and Mihir also said that they will study hard. and run towards their study room which Mahendra specially made, he wanted to ask them to play but seeing their excited look he doesn’t ask he also has some work pending he decided that after some time he will ask them.