Rebirth to have a happy life - Chapter 63:Faith.
Aditi really like this B school, all the teacher here are good, they tell them lots of inspirational stories, and also teach them the basic of business, they tell them that in business, in discussion session, she discussed the idea with her mentor, on which he told her that her idea is very nice and because of her YouTube channel she already doing advertisement, but now she first needed to do some things.
2. Do market research in this field.
3. Decide her initial product and customer.
4. Make a plan.
Aditi never paid attention to these things, her concept is very clear, she will invest some money told her recipes and make Masale then package them beautifully and then sell them to wholesaler, but her mentor tells her that she can’t do directly this, it is in food category, so she must take a food license, also she needed to find a good name, after that she needed to fix a rate, and consider all the factor not only the salary of workers and cost of raw material but also the rent, the packaging charges, the advertisement charges, tax, profit of wholesaler and her profit, there are some other things too. After discussion and most importantly learning about the concept of why she got clear about some things like what she wanted to do in life. In her previous life she never ruminated on her thoughts so now she wanted to do this, she realized that she is making everything complex, she know that Mahendra is interested in her, so what she caring can’t she propose him first, what are stopping her, why she is thinking about other , she know that she is not with him because of his money, but because she feels valued with him, she even after dying cant get rid of the fear of other peoples judgements, she also feel that children misunderstood her but she knows that children are mature and this is her own excuse, also why she wanted to start business, because she thinks that she wanted to prove her worth to world, but inside her, she is not feeling valuable, their teacher said that to be successful or be happy you must remember that the steps are like this
1.Being
2. Doing
3.Getting success./ Getting Happiness/ Getting both.
But nowadays people are doing exact opposite, they think that if they got money or got married then they start doing the things they wanted like buy something they want or do something for their partner, and the last is being like a rich person, but it is not the right way, first, you have to become a person who is happy or who is successful, think that if you got success or loving partner what will you do, will you eat unhealthy food, will you fool around, will you be lazy, after completing this step the next step is doing the things which will help you to find happiness or your success, act like that, fake it till you make it, and then you will get what you want. And in reality, we don’t know how much life we have, if we postpone everything then what is the guarantee we will enjoy those things in future, things may indeed come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle. why she wastes her three months in fear of losing the man of her dream while waiting for that woman, why can’t she love him, what worse will happen her heart will break, but who doesn’t get heartbreak in their life, she already witness worse, what will more bad happen than that, also why she needed to work hard, why we must want difficult things, the answer is not always complex, but we make it complex.
Lots of the time, saying simple sorry or taking the first step can solve lots of problems, but we hesitate, we wait and then things got complex, if in her previous life if she ever try to talk with Raman or anybody if she reflects then things might change, her stubbornness, her unwillingness, her lack of courage, her thinking that you must be sacrificing something for good things are all the cause of her all tragedies. In her subconscious, she thinks that you need to suffer for getting happiness, and happiness can’t last long, but who says this, why can’t we be happy all the time, why our God who loves us so much need us to suffer, why our mistake we blame on God or faith.
She remembers a story which her grandpa tells her, in a small village there is Ayurvedic Doctor live, he doesn’t ask money form his patient, whatever they will give he will accept it. in every morning he asks his wife about how much money they needed today to fulfill their needs, and wife tell him the amount, every morning before starting his business, he write down the amount in one corner of a notebook and then pray God he first show his gratitude and then tell God that the amount require and coincidence or say miracle he daily achieve that amount, after that on that day he never take money from a single patient even if the patient insists, one day a man who comes from city come in there house, he comes in next village to work but in midway, he feels sick so he decided to take some medicine because his destination is still faraway while talking the man realized that this man look knowledgeable so he tells the Dr he and his wife can’t convince child, so can he recommend him any medicine, after asking some question the Dr give him the medicine, the patient tries to give him money but the Dr refuses to say that his today’s account is settled by God, after that the man inquired about the Dr. and his respect towards him increased, year passed. The Doctor have a girl, one day his wife said to him “you doesn’t take extra money from patient and I never argue with you, but we only have one daughter we needed to buy some jewellery and things which we can give her as dowry, you have to do something listening this the Dr said okay, and after that he do his daily pray, after that he write down, My daughter’s dowry, he also doesn’t know how he get this, but he decided to trust his God, after some time while he closing the hospital a car come in front of his house, and a middle age couple and a daughter who’s age is same as his daughter is come, after coming the man tell him that some year ago he give him medicine for convincing a child, and their daughter born, after a month his daughter is getting married, but that time you don’t take money, I also think that giving you money is like disrespecting you, at that time I inquire about you and find out that you have a daughter so I decided that whatever dowry I will give my daughter I also give to your daughter, so don’t refuse, after that he tell his servants to load the things he bought with them, inside, listening the commotion Dr’s wife and daughter come outside, seeing them the man’s wife come and greet them and give them the jewellery they bought after some talking the rich man and his family leave, after that the Dr and his wife feel too grateful their God never let them trust down,
Remembering this story Aditi also feel that God can give us whatever we want, but yes your intention must be pure, if you want to hurt someone or do and things God never fulfill your wish also if you can’t trust fully and worried about things that will never gonna work, you must gonna have absolute faith in God, thinking this Aditi decided that she will purpose or at least ask Mahendra about their future.