Rebirth to have a happy life - Chapter 66：Feeling Angry.

“It’s a lack of clarity that creates chaos and frustration. Those emotions are poison to any living goal, said by Steve Maraboli, and for doing business or achieving anything in life you must be clear about what you want and for that, you must be a good decision-maker, now what happen lots of the time, some people while taking decision search a lot ask a lot but still hesitate, you need to make a decision quickly in business it is very important, and in life too, I am not saying that don’t do research, but how much time you gonna spend on the decision is determine before, the decision is never right or wrong, it is you who determines the end result,”

“Sir, what we do if we can’t make a proper decision?” one student asked,

“if you can’t take a proper decision then the first thing is to consider a worst-case scenario, like if someone wanted to do business but for that, they needed to leave the high paying job, so first write down what will worst happen, not only think but write down, after that think about countermeasures, and how it will impact your life, and the result is too negative then don’t do it, but if the result is not so scary, then go for it, like after leaving job, if your business will not work then you will be financially in trouble, so either you can save some money for worst and if you are capable of finding a job then okay, and even after that you feel confuse then do the best scenario test, write down what good things happen if you do leave the job and do the business if it’s overcome the fear of worst-case scenario then go for it”

Aditi also know some things about decision making and yes she also write down everything, this is her therapy, after that the teacher tells them about decision detox, this is a new concept for Aditi, the teacher tells them that in the morning our mind is so powerful so don’t take an unimportant decision like what to wear, what to make breakfast, giving reply or not, etc, instead of that start working on your big project as soon as you wake up. Listening this Aditi got confused because she read a book in which writer tell them that in the first hour after waking up you have to sweat in this way all the impurities in your body will be removed, and it is better if you read something, Aditi asks this to the teacher, the teacher said if you can let go of your thoughts while exercising and reading then okay, but don’t waste your time in decision making on such things, use automation, like decided your next weeks clothes, what will you eat on breakfast, and even possible then decided for dinner and lunch, also make a plan for the week, set aside time for planning, and setting goals for week and day and possibly make a to-do list on night before, in this way you can increase your productivity, also try to use pen and paper more than a cell phone or laptop for planning. Aditi decided to do as they said.

After that, they tell students, “Avoid three C’s in life if you wanted to achieve happiness and success, which are

1. Complaining.

2. Criticizing

3. Comparing.

In business lots of unfair things are happening if you waste your time in complaining then it gonna achieve nothing only you are gonna upset, also we can’t criticize someone, in this way we are only adding our troubles, instead of criticizing we can reflect more and do some extra things. and last but not the least, never compare your business, your children, your partner and yourself with others, the grass is greener on another side, you never know the full story so don’t compare, it is unfair to you and the next person too.”

Aditi in this life already stops complaining and yes criticizing, yes she compares herself with others, mostly with Samira whom she never meets, but now she decided that she will not compare and not prejudice, it is difficult but yup have to do.

After the classes, the mentor and she have a talk, her mentor, Dr. Attar, is a professor in his late 50, he is really a kind man, and she remember her grandpa when she is kid while talking with him he ask her when she is gonna start her business, she tell him that she also don’t know might after competing the course, listening this he scold and tell her that it is best if she start now becasue she even don’t have worker, and even if she tried from today she needed at least 3 months for basic setup, Aditi try to make excuses and said him that right now she don’t have money and manpower, so she needed sometime, on which he said that first start doing give away with her products which are unpacked by taking a contest on YouTube give those spies to her relative and other persons for tasting and also start doing market research for this she don’t need large amount of money and also now a days bank give loans to woman entrepreneur so she don’t need to worry, listening his kind word Aditi feel so warm, she tell him that she will get money, that is not the problem, but her plan is not ready on which he replied “there is no thing like perfect timing perfect planning, A good plan violently executed now is better than a perfect plan executed at some indefinite time in the future is said by George S. Patton Jr So don’t wait if you seriously wanted to start business, take baby steps but do every day something, you are young so you can take risk, and if your business get successful you can help woman from uneducated background”

Listening to this Aditi also feels motivated. After the class and dinner, when she comes outside, she sees familiar Car, but there is Virat and Avi is standing, she asks them about Mahendra they tell her that he needed to go for work immediately, he might come back tomorrow, listening to this Aditi feel somewhat disappointed, she thinks that she will spend time with him, also she sees that children are sleeping inside the car, Avi tell her that everyone has work tomorrow so everyone go to their apartments so children feel lonely, listening this Aditi smiled, Mihir and Mishty, spend more time in her house and now they consider that house as their home. After that they headed towards their home, Aditi asks them that are they have dinner, on which they replied yes, while they are talking Mishty wake up seeing Aditi she feel happy, hugging her she said “Mau I miss you, now we are going to our house, so you will not go tomorrow right?”

“yes” Aditi replied, Mihri and chinu also wake up, after talking for some time they reach home, Aditi tells them to change clothes and she also take a bath, after that, they go to sleep, Virat and Mahendra decided to sleep here today because Aditi is alone and they are not in home for two days, anyway there are total three bedrooms and one bedroom is given to chinu and Virat, but chinu will sleep with Aditi so there is no problem. After children sleep, Aditi check her phone, but there is no message, she feels sad, but still send Mahendra a Good Night message, after waiting for 10 minutes she doesn’t get any reply, for the whole day she is very happy, but now her mood worsens, and she feels somewhat angry, in anger she switch off her phone and decided to sleep, the B school is really tiring so even though she is angry she falls asleep.