Sweet pampering strategy: warm husband is so bad - Chapter 888
I don’t know what terrible things happened in those years, so that grandfather Fang has been guilty so far. But even if he always repeats the same words, it’s useless. After all, everything has happened, so we should speak it out well, so that we can find a way to solve it. We need to tie the bell to relieve the pain, and we need a heart doctor to cure the heart disease
moreover, if you don’t explain everything clearly and just comfort blindly, it will be useless and even self defeating, because you don’t know what happened and how to persuade correctly
thinking of this, Tang Simiao quickly asked, “don’t worry, grandfather Fang. Slowly, what happened in those years? Why did granny Fang become what she is now? ”
“I remember that in those years, your grandmother took all the responsibilities alone and said that she was infertile with the examination report. At first, no one else knew about it. I always comforted your grandmother. I said that it was OK. We could adopt a child as long as we were well together, because I loved your grandmother deeply at that time.” Grandfather Fang continued to tell the story in his memory
these words make Shen Rufeng and Tang Simiao confused. From what Tang Simiao saw, as well as grandfather Fang’s description of the past, in Tang Simiao’s mind, grandfather Fang is a good man and a good husband
I really can’t understand why grandfather Fang said such words. I can’t help but ask curiously, “grandfather Fang, I think from what I see, in my mind, grandfather Fang is a good husband and a good man!”
I don’t know if there are too many things going on recently. Anyway, as long as one of them goes out for a long time and doesn’t come back, Gu Yuanyuan is always worried and always thinking about whether something has happened
but Gu Yuanyuan was different. She was worried to death and couldn’t help thinking, “Miaomiao, why haven’t they come back yet? I’ve been out for so long. Is something wrong? If you don’t buy the food back, you’ll be starving. ”
I really don’t know whether I care about Tang Simiao’s comfort or Ren Tianyou’s stomach, or both
Ren Tianyou, who was shaken by Gu Yuanyuan, couldn’t help saying, “sister Yuanyuan, don’t worry. This delicatessen is quite remote and has a good business. Maybe they will have to wait for a long time after they go, so there is a delay for a while. I’m fine. Drink more water to fight hunger, Just wait until they come back. ”
it seems that Ren Tianyou’s saying this is not totally unreasonable. Maybe that’s the truth. Just wait a little longer. Maybe Tang Simiao and they will come back later< But later, I didn’t know what was going on, and my family knew about it. Even for a while, they forced me to divorce your grandmother. At that time, we didn’t want to. Seeing our firm attitude, our family had to publicize that your grandmother couldn’t get pregnant, Want to pass the pressure of public opinion….
although it stopped halfway, Tang Simiao also roughly understood what grandfather Fang wanted to say next, and could not help but continue to add, “just want to force you to submit through the pressure of public opinion, so that you and grandma Fang can divorce, right?””Yes, as soon as your grandmother went out at that time, someone pointed out behind her back that she couldn’t be pregnant and delayed me. Later, when I learned about this, I wouldn’t let her go out. As a result, your grandmother insisted on going out to work.” Grandfather Fang is really upset now. He rubs his hair and continues to say.
Now, Granny Fang’s fear of strangers and her dislike of gathering and talking in strange places should be related to the pressure of public opinion at that time. But it’s definitely not easy to dispel people’s deepest fear. I’d better continue to listen to granny Fang and see if there is a better solution.
Tang Simiao is such a person. Once he has made up his mind to do something, other things will not matter. He completely forgot that the purpose of coming here is to buy some delicious food for Ren Tianyou.
Seeing that Tang Simiao sincerely wanted to help himself solve the problem, grandfather Fang also decided to take a good look at his future. He only heard grandfather Fang continue to say, “the result may be that people in my family see that the pressure of public opinion is useless to us. What should we do or what should we do? In desperation, my mother had to go to my wife’s unit to make a scene.”
I really didn’t expect that there should be such a mother in the world. It’s not always said that the child is the flesh that falls from the mother. Any mother wants her son to be good. Why does this mother want to deal with her daughter-in-law like this? But also clearly know that his son loves his daughter-in-law, this is not intended to let his son pain?
As if I could see Tang Simiao’s deep doubts, I could only say helplessly, “in fact, I know that my mother is also good for me. I want to have a child of my own and be able to support my old age, which is worthy of the ancestors of our old Fang family. So I want to do everything possible to break up your grandmother and me and find a fertile wife for me.”
It turns out that he misunderstood grandfather Fang’s mother, but even so, Tang Simiao still couldn’t understand and asked, “grandfather Fang, I know your mother really loves you, but I think it’s wrong for your mother to do so. Any mother wants her son to be happy, so she shouldn’t separate you from Grandma Fang !”
“Girl, you are still young now. There are many things you may not understand. When you grow up, you can’t say who is right or who is wrong. It can only be said that it is the helplessness of fate. We can’t fight against it. I believe that any mother who sees her son and encounters such things will inevitably be a bit extreme!” Grandfather Fang still felt that he had to say a few words of justice for his mother.
To tell you the truth, when these things happened, grandfather Fang really resented his mother and felt that his mother could not understand what he thought. However, when he ran away from home for many years, he opened a Deli in this distant city and met so many mothers and sons, grandfather Fang suddenly felt that he could understand his mother’s pains and felt ashamed Guilt.
But what can I do? My wife abandoned everything and wanted to be with me. Maybe, to put it in a particularly unpleasant way, my mother at least had her sister to take care of her, but my wife only had herself. She had done a bastard thing in those years and could never betray her wife again.
Every time I think about what happened in those years, I feel very sad. Now I want to slap myself with a few bus palms. Why can I do such a natural thing to my wife?
Some things still need to be faced, and grandfather Fang also has to tell the truth. “As a result, my wife can’t even go to the unit, and she is criticized as soon as she goes out. For a long time, she has suffered from this kind of mental illness. If I accompanied my wife and comforted her, maybe I could get out of this mental shadow, but I didn’t accompany her well ! I’m a coward
No wonder grandfather Fang has been so sad all these years. He just said that what he saw is not necessarily true. It turns out that there is something else in this matter. Tang Simiao can’t help asking, “grandfather Fang, what terrible thing happened in those years? Only in this way can granny Fang have a knot in her heart for so many years, and she can’t go out all the time. She feels very painful! “